Well, we are now 39 days from the wedding, 35 days until we leave (5 weeks from this moment I'll already be in Orlando!). Seriously, just flying by
Last week my wedding planner emailed me to finalized some details, get the names of our maid of honor and best man, etcetera. For some reason I really knew then that it was getting close!
Okay, here are the updates I can think of:
Guest Book
So this week we were wrapping up a few more details. For starters, I got our guest book. Did I mention that before? Rather than a traditional guest book, especially since we'll only have 21 people at the wedding, including us, I found a print on Etsy that was perfect. We'll ship it with the other stuff to our planner, and when we get home we'll frame it and hang it on the wall. Rather than have a book that gets stowed away somewhere, this will be a nice reminder of our wedding day and our closest friends and family who came to celebrate - right in our living room
They customized it with our colors, and even made Todd's tux beige and his tie aqua, which I liked. I should have asked them to add a goatee, though, lol. That's okay, I LOVE it

She had 100 balloons originally, but customized it with 20 so each guest can sign a balloon. I just love this - I am so excited. It was $48 for the digital file (man, she must make a fortune on these!), and I'm having it printed on 16x20 card stock for $35 with a local vendor (I work in marketing so I am happy to throw a little business to a print shop I know). It's a little bit of an expense, but I think it's worth it
Bubbles
When we were getting the ring bearer pillow, Todd randomly noticed bubbles. I didn't even think of that - they blew bubbles at my sister's wedding too (although apparently people blew them
before the wedding...do people not know that you're supposed to do it after the ceremony as the bride and groom come down the aisle?).
We actually found the exact same wedding bubbles they had for $10 at Party City at the Dollar Tree for my sister's wedding, but no such luck for us. That's okay, I found
these, which are actually much cuter and not expensive at all. Good deal!
Marriage License
Oh, so Brevard County actually sent back the completed marriage license a week ago - they got it the Tuesday after Memorial Day, completed everything and had it back to us in Buffalo by Friday. Nice! So we literally have everything wrapped up on that until our wedding day. Yay!
Violinist
One thing Todd and I kept forgetting to do was pick out our songs for the violinist, but we finally got that done on Monday. Here are our selections:
Prelude: Music of the Night
Entrance of Family: Air on the G String, J.S. Bach
Processional: Pachelbel’s Canon in D Major
Bride Entrance: I See the Light (Tangled) - Walk Down the Aisle
Recessional: A Whole New World
Postlude: Theme from Ice Castles
Now I'm not a huge Phantom of the Opera fan but I love musicals and that song sounds amazing on the violin (we were looking them all up on YouTube, lol). Also, apparently Todd's mom loved the song from Ice Castles, so he wanted that one in there. It honestly doesn't matter to me. The only song I really wanted was I See the Light when I walk down the aisle (thanks, Jess!), so I let him pick that. He also really liked Air on the G String by Bach. I told him to pick what he wanted...I'm glad he was into it, and honestly, everything sounds nice. I really did like A Whole New World on the violin, though, so I'm glad he was okay with that one too
Some of you may remember that my mom passed away very suddenly last year. My maternal grandmother also passed away this October (a week after Todd and I got engaged). So unfortunately, the only family that is there to enter would be Todd's parents. My dad is walking me down the aisle, so that takes care of him, lol. I've always been extremely close to my aunt (my mom's sister). She actually had a minor stroke last month and thankfully is okay and is still able to come (she is so excited). Do you think it would be appropriate for me to ask my aunt to enter in my "parents" slot? I think she would be very touched, and I'd like her to have a place of honor at the wedding, so to speak.
Cat Sitter
About four or five months ago I put a message on Facebook asking for pet sitter recommendations because everyone we'd normally ask is coming to the wedding. A family friend immediately responded and said she would love to help us, she asked for the dates, and I gave her all the information. Well, on Wednesday I saw her post on FB that she was going away in July, so I was a little nervous and sent her a message saying that Todd and I wanted to take her out to dinner and "show her the ropes" since the wedding is so close.
Side note: My cats are named Marie and Oliver. Yeah, I name my pets after Disney characters
She responded with a sad smiley...yeah, she's going away now. Here's the thing, I know it's summer and people are busy. We didn't ask anyone to watch our cats, we were just looking for cat sitter recommendations. Why offer if you were going to bail?! And the worst part of all is, my sister said that she planned this trip at least 3 weeks ago because she saw something on Facebook then (I apparently missed it). Why in the world didn't she say something 3 weeks ago so we would have more time to find a replacement (it is now 5 weeks before we leave)? I mean I would never expect someone to be put out and feed our cats for that long, but she offered and was so adamant about it. I'm not trying to have a bridezilla meltdown (I'm waiting for a call back from a pet sitter...it'll cost $200, but such is life), but I was really frustrated the other day. I would never do that. Ah well.
What do you guys think of
these shirts? I'm on the fence about ordering them. I'm all about wearing stuff on our honeymoon - we'll be wearing bride and groom Mickey ears and our pins of course, and I bought the "I'll Be Your Minnie" "I'll Be Your Mickey" shirts this winter for us to wear, but these look like they might be a little hot for July. I just think they're so adorable...do you think I should get them?