"Pet parent" is pretty subjective. On the one hand, I dislike the term "fur-baby" and I don't compete with people about whether I love my dog more than they love their kids. I've trained him to a high standard becase I want a well-behaved dog and I don't assume everyone loves him.
On the other hand, I have no human kids, and the dog fills a child-type role in our family. He gets a christmas stocking every year, we've driven 300 miles out of the way to leave him with my parents rather than board him overnight and he has better health insurance than I do. He's crate-trained and crated when we're not home, but while training we rigged a camera so we could check on him with our phones while we were out and get alerts if he started making noise. He's allowed on our couch and our bed, but sleeps in his crate at night. He has seasonal collars and sometimes wears a festive hat.
I think my husband and I fall right on the line between "responsible" and "ridiculous" when it comes to the dog, and we're definitely Disney's target market here. We started staying off-site specifically because of the dog, and while this change hasn't made me leap up and schedule a vacation, it does mean we'll consider an on-site stay for future disney trips.