ford91exploder
Resident Curmudgeon
It might help to remember that not everybody is a park warrior. Even without dogs, lots of people take breaks during their day, going into the parks for a few hours in the morning, then out for a rest in the afternoon, then back in for a few hours in the evening. There are a lot of ways to do a disney vacation and they don't all involve being out of the hotel room from dawn until midnight.
We travel with our large dog and usually stay in a pet-friendly rental house about 2 miles from the parks. We bring his crate, bed and toys so he has familiar things. We don't schedule anything for arrival nights, because he needs time to settle in. During the trip, we walk him or go to a dog park in the early morning, then hit the parks for about 4 or 5 hours, coming out around noon or 1. Then back to the house for a long break, walk the dog again, rest or shower, read a book, whatever. Give the dog dinner, take him out. Back to the parks around 6, stay until fireworks, then back to the house. Walk the dog again before going to bed. If we want to catch an afternoon parade or stay late for MNSSHP or MVMCP, we adjust the schedule accordingly. It may not sound like a vacation to you, but we enjoy it. We like having the dog along, we like the slower pace and we don't consider it an imposition to schedule around him.
That said, while everybody here seems to think all owners are desperate to dump their dogs in the rooms and go out all day, I'd be very nervous about leaving him alone in a hotel room. He'd be fine, but at a rental house, we control access. That's not true at hotels, where staff can enter rooms at will. It's not unheard of for front desk agents to accidentally give someone an occupied room, or for someone to pull off the "do not disturb, dog inside" sign as a joke. A crated dog is helpless if someone wants to mess with him or throw something in. There's also the possibility of theft: dog theft is a sad reality, especially if you have a friendly dog of a popular breed. Regular hotel theft (of laptops and so on) happens all the time. I do not want to be the one freak occasion where someone's dog got stolen out of a disney hotel. We'd send him to daycare and just have him with us at night.
I think our brand of crazy is fairly typical of peole who who travel with dogs and do play by the rules (no fake service dogs). If Disney is smart they'll work with Best Friends and offer a daycare discount...
...and if they're REALLY smart they'll put a pic of a sad, lonely looking dog alone in the hotel room on a flyer with the Best Friends number and have Sarah McLachlan's "In the Arms of an Angel" play whenever you try to leave the room without the dog.
You seem like a Dog OWNER, not a 'Pet Parent'