MJ's Mayflowers

[jesserin]

Susie you just reminded me of this...

Maybe some of you girls could give me some tips on wether or not this is a smart/good/really stupid idea.

But as of late, DH's taken to the "teasing" where it's funny to everyone but me. I know he's not trying to be mean... but I'm sensitive about alot of things and don't like being teased - and he's thick about that stuff.

So every time he "teases" and it bothers me... I've been saying "There's no one around but me and you - and you're the only one laughing... still funny?"

I've said it so much in the last 3 days I think he's starting to get the drift... but every time I say it now he "teases" back with "You're no fun."

Any advice? He's said a million times that if it bothers me he won't do it anymore - and then the very next time he get's the chance he does it! Not purposefully... he just carry's all the signs of an idiot on occassion. (shhh don't tell him I said that) *sigh*

Anyway. :lol: This has been bugging me all day today. Maybe you girls who've been married for buckets of years could help.

 

[DDuckFan130]

Susie you just reminded me of this...

Maybe some of you girls could give me some tips on wether or not this is a smart/good/really stupid idea.

But as of late, DH's taken to the "teasing" where it's funny to everyone but me. I know he's not trying to be mean... but I'm sensitive about alot of things and don't like being teased - and he's thick about that stuff.

So every time he "teases" and it bothers me... I've been saying "There's no one around but me and you - and you're the only one laughing... still funny?"

I've said it so much in the last 3 days I think he's starting to get the drift... but every time I say it now he "teases" back with "You're no fun."

Any advice? He's said a million times that if it bothers me he won't do it anymore - and then the very next time he get's the chance he does it! Not purposefully... he just carry's all the signs of an idiot on occassion. (shhh don't tell him I said that) *sigh*

Anyway. :lol: This has been bugging me all day today. Maybe you girls who've been married for buckets of years could help.

Ignoring him?

If he wants the attention and you give it to him, that defeats your purpose. By ignoring him and showing "well you're not worth my time and effort" then maybe he'll catch on and stop because there will be no point for him to continue.

 

[jesserin]

*hugs*

My dad makes stupid comments from time to time in an attempt to be funny. Once he teased my sister and said "well if you can't do anything, just teach" and basically demeaning my career. It was a joke, but a poor one.

Men suck :lol:

THAT'S EXACTLY WHAT I'M TALKING ABOUT!!!

Grrrr... how is that funny?! It's insulting! Even if they don't mean it to be... it is!

 

[jesserin]

Ignoring him?

If he wants the attention and you give it to him, that defeats your purpose. By ignoring him and showing "well you're not worth my time and effort" then maybe he'll catch on and stop because there will be no point for him to continue.

*giggle* You're right there. I've never ignored him. :lol: Some thing about that just seems wrong - but with the childlike manner he says things... I might as well respond as if it was a child saying them.

 

[jesserin]

Oh well... I'm off for the night...

Good Night guys. :wave:

 

[maggiegrace1]

And Dana.


Dana if you get on later... I want a big report on Little miss's big day at the NICU! And pics please. :kiss:

And I was just reading over some old things you'd sent me... and found that paragraph. It means something entirely different to me now - but it's special all the same.

I miss you too

I remember that....It is special.

We had a GREAT time...Maggie saw her friends Jordan and Noah..They had a blast playing..and we all sat and talked ..very nice...I was nervous when we got there..bad memories..but she is great now..but I just started remembering everything..

Here are a few pics..the rest is on dropshots..
The first two are maggie and Noah..

then Noah,Maggie and Jordan

Then Maggie withe her cute self all ready to go...she has enough hair for a lil Pebbles pony..LOL

 

[DDuckFan130]

OMG look at all the babies...I'm guessing they were all like Maggie or similar? They've all grown...and I'm loving the little boy with the glasses!

Great pictures and definitely look at the positive aspects of your visit, the fact that you were able to get back there with a happy and healthy baby.

 

[maggiegrace1]

Thanks Regina..

The one on the left with the glasses..Kept trying to kiss Maggie..he was adorable with his puckered up lips..LOL ..Noah..was 2 lbs...and Jordan was a twin..his twin dies and he weighed two lbs and 10 oz...

It was great..after we got there and saw everyone...it was soo wonderful...Drew and I just were so happy that we were able to bring a happy healthy little girl there..it makes everything everything we went through so worth it all..

 

[DDuckFan130]

Thanks Regina..

The one on the left with the glasses..Kept trying to kiss Maggie..he was adorable with his puckered up lips..LOL ..Noah..was 2 lbs...and Jordan was a twin..his twin dies and he weighed two lbs and 10 oz...

It was great..after we got there and saw everyone...it was soo wonderful...Drew and I just were so happy that we were able to bring a happy healthy little girl there..it makes everything everything we went through so worth it all..

Aww the poor twin

I just noticed the puckered up lips...too cute.

 

[maggiegrace1]

Aww the poor twin

I just noticed the puckered up lips...too cute.

Yes..it was so sad...but his mom just had a baby girl a week ago....she is on maggies dropshots page...

www.dropshots.com/maggiegrace

He puckers them up all the time..

 

[DDuckFan130]

Yes..it was so sad...but his mom just had a baby girl a week ago....she is on maggies dropshots page...

www.dropshots.com/maggiegrace

He puckers them up all the time..

Awww

My cousin is having her second baby like in September/October. Her first one is turning 1 next month :lol:

My other cousin, who has been married for 7 years is having her first baby in November or so. She put off a family to focus on becoming a doctor. Now that she's almost done is I believe her perfect time to have a baby. She just didn't tell us until a few weeks ago until she was in the clear because she almost lost it at 6 weeks.

 

[maggiegrace1]

Awww

My cousin is having her second baby like in September/October. Her first one is turning 1 next month :lol:

My other cousin, who has been married for 7 years is having her first baby in November or so. She put off a family to focus on becoming a doctor. Now that she's almost done is I believe her perfect time to have a baby. She just didn't tell us until a few weeks ago until she was in the clear because she almost lost it at 6 weeks.

Aww..YAY!

Yeah its best to wait a bit..So many things can happen..
I hope all turns out well for her..

 

[DDuckFan130]

Aww..YAY!

Yeah its best to wait a bit..So many things can happen..
I hope all turns out well for her..

Thanks Glad your day went well

 

[Disnut]

Susie you just reminded me of this...

Maybe some of you girls could give me some tips on wether or not this is a smart/good/really stupid idea.

But as of late, DH's taken to the "teasing" where it's funny to everyone but me. I know he's not trying to be mean... but I'm sensitive about alot of things and don't like being teased - and he's thick about that stuff.

So every time he "teases" and it bothers me... I've been saying "There's no one around but me and you - and you're the only one laughing... still funny?"

I've said it so much in the last 3 days I think he's starting to get the drift... but every time I say it now he "teases" back with "You're no fun."

Any advice? He's said a million times that if it bothers me he won't do it anymore - and then the very next time he get's the chance he does it! Not purposefully... he just carry's all the signs of an idiot on occassion. (shhh don't tell him I said that) *sigh*

Anyway. :lol: This has been bugging me all day today. Maybe you girls who've been married for buckets of years could help.

That is more or less some of what is going on here. I am upset about church today. We got to the pew first and some women wanted to share the pew. Well after communion we go to sit down and all of a sudden I can't sit accept 1 inch on the edge of the pew. The women wouldn't move back down. So DH says I was spoiled because I grew up in a church that had lots of room and his church was more crowded.:brick: and he had to share his room.:brick: I was brought up to respect other people room in the pew. I don't like sitting on other peoples laps. Men....

 

[Disnut]

Great pictures Dana. I am glad you had a great time.

 

[Disnut]

Things are okay here. I needed to blow off steam. Thanks for listening. I need to get to bed. I hope tomorrow is better. :shrug: I hope to have some pictures up of today. Not of me I looked like I swallowed a couple of balloons. Not good. :zipit: Good night.

 

[mpoppins76]

Good morning!! :wave: Hope everyone had a nice weekend!

{{hugs}} For Susie & Jess. Men stink. :hammer:

Jo, good luck on you final today girlie!!!! Disney's right around the corner!!!!! :sohappy:

Dana, just got caught up on all of your new pics...love them!! What a little dollie!

 

[MerHearted]

Why is it that girls have the power to take something wrong they did and make YOU feel bad about it, so in the end, you're the one apologizing? Maybe I'm just weak.

 

[mpoppins76]

Why is it that girls have the power to take something wrong they did and make YOU feel bad about it, so in the end, you're the one apologizing? Maybe I'm just weak.

Ahhhh, it is one of life's greatest mysteries, Vince

{{hugs}}

 

[Disnut]

Morning everyone.