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DisneyBunny

Active Member
Oh, that's it. I'm sitting here at work crying my eyes out. I just can't take it anymore.

I just got an e-mail from my SIL, who is now 8 weeks pregnant. Joy. Oh, and we're all having dinner at the in-laws tonight for my birthday. So much for that. Now we're going to spend all evening talking about the baby. I don't know how much more I can take. I'm so jealous, and hurt. How could she be so insensitve. She knows what kind of weekend I had... She knows what troubles we've been through. Why would she choose today to tell the family. :cry: :cry:
 

jesserin

New Member
Oh, that's it. I'm sitting here at work crying my eyes out. I just can't take it anymore.

I just got an e-mail from my SIL, who is now 8 weeks pregnant. Joy. Oh, and we're all having dinner at the in-laws tonight for my birthday. So much for that. Now we're going to spend all evening talking about the baby. I don't know how much more I can take. I'm so jealous, and hurt. How could she be so insensitve. She knows what kind of weekend I had... She knows what troubles we've been through. Why would she choose today to tell the family. :cry: :cry:


((((HUGE HUGS)))) I'm so sorry girly. That is extremely insensitive of her... I wish I knew what else to say other than i'm so very sorry. My heart goes out to you and Marc. Sometimes people just have the worst timing... as is clearly the case today. Try not to let it get you down. Maybe cancel the family stuff tonight and go to a nice dinner with Marc.... promise each other you won't talk about the SIL. You don't need that on top of everything else... :kiss:'s sweetie. I wish I could be there to hug you right now.
 

nibblesandbits

Well-Known Member
Amazing isn't it, how the support we get here makes such a difference?
Maybe being at a distance gives a perspective we wouldn't otherwise have.
Maybe it makes the basic values we all seem to share stand out more than they might otherwise too.
I don't know.
I just know I love being a part of this.

I totally think you are right about that. And I love being a part of it too.

Jess is a wonderful woman.

:lookaroun

(She's pointing a gun at me)

Glad to see you here Vince! (Stop harassing Jess! :lookaroun)

Bonny I watch lots of things I should be embarresed by but Im not..

The Bachelor..Gilmore Girls..Hannah Montana....LOL

I've been watching Hannah Montana lately too. I am also embarrassed.

Had to laugh at Nibbles early post...I love the honesty here.

Anything for a laugh! :lol:

Oh, that's it. I'm sitting here at work crying my eyes out. I just can't take it anymore.

I just got an e-mail from my SIL, who is now 8 weeks pregnant. Joy. Oh, and we're all having dinner at the in-laws tonight for my birthday. So much for that. Now we're going to spend all evening talking about the baby. I don't know how much more I can take. I'm so jealous, and hurt. How could she be so insensitve. She knows what kind of weekend I had... She knows what troubles we've been through. Why would she choose today to tell the family. :cry: :cry:

Aw (hugs) Bunny!

It'll all be ok...really crapy time for her to tell everyone though. But when you just learn your pregnant...(not that I'd do)...all you can think about is baby and you don't realize if your being pregnant will cause anguish to anyone else. All you care about is you and the baby. (Again, not that I'd know...just a well educated guess.)
 

DisneyBunny

Active Member
((((HUGE HUGS)))) I'm so sorry girly. That is extremely insensitive of her... I wish I knew what else to say other than i'm so very sorry. My heart goes out to you and Marc. Sometimes people just have the worst timing... as is clearly the case today. Try not to let it get you down. Maybe cancel the family stuff tonight and go to a nice dinner with Marc.... promise each other you won't talk about the SIL. You don't need that on top of everything else... :kiss:'s sweetie. I wish I could be there to hug you right now.

Aw (hugs) Bunny!

It'll all be ok...really crapy time for her to tell everyone though. But when you just learn your pregnant...(not that I'd do)...all you can think about is baby and you don't realize if your being pregnant will cause anguish to anyone else. All you care about is you and the baby. (Again, not that I'd know...just a well educated guess.)

Thanks guys. I needed that. I kinda suspected it was coming... I should have prepared that better. So much for my birthday :rolleyes: It's now "Yay! We just learned about another grandchild-I'm so glad ONE of our Daughters-in-law is able to have them-Day"
 

nibblesandbits

Well-Known Member
Thanks guys. I needed that. I kinda suspected it was coming... I should have prepared that better. So much for my birthday :rolleyes: It's now "Yay! We just learned about another grandchild-I'm so glad ONE of our Daughters-in-law is able to have them-Day"
Bunny...don't beat yourself up about it. That's not going to solve anything. Everything will work out just the way it should. (Hmm...I should be taking my own advice.)
 

jesserin

New Member
Aw (hugs) Bunny!

It'll all be ok...really crapy time for her to tell everyone though. But when you just learn your pregnant...(not that I'd do)...all you can think about is baby and you don't realize if your being pregnant will cause anguish to anyone else. All you care about is you and the baby. (Again, not that I'd know...just a well educated guess.)


I can say from experience that it's just pure selfishness that made Bunny's SIL do that today. When we found out we were pregs it was on the heels of my bestfriends 3rd miscarriage... I didn't tell her for almost 2 months until I knew she had recovered both physically and emotionally from that experience. While its true the announcement of a baby is a thrilling experience... people have to remember the world does not revolve around them and their procreating success. Sometimes being sensitive to the needs of other's takes priority over bullying our news into everyone's lives.

*sigh* I hate that you're going through this bunny...

:kiss:'s for Nibbs always being optomistic ;)
((more hugs)) for bunny. :(
 

nibblesandbits

Well-Known Member
I can say from experience that it's just pure selfishness that made Bunny's SIL do that today. When we found out we were pregs it was on the heels of my bestfriends 3rd miscarriage... I didn't tell her for almost 2 months until I knew she had recovered both physically and emotionally from that experience. While its true the announcement of a baby is a thrilling experience... people have to remember the world does not revolve around them and their procreating success. Sometimes being sensitive to the needs of other's takes priority over bullying our news into everyone's lives.

*sigh* I hate that you're going through this bunny...

:kiss:'s for Nibbs always being optomistic ;)
((more hugs)) for bunny. :(
OK...I'm sure selfishness does play a bit of a part in that! :lol: I was just trying to be optimistic...although I sure don't feel optimistic in my own life at the moment.
 

DisneyBunny

Active Member
Bunny...don't beat yourself up about it. That's not going to solve anything. Everything will work out just the way it should. (Hmm...I should be taking my own advice.)

I can say from experience that it's just pure selfishness that made Bunny's SIL do that today. When we found out we were pregs it was on the heels of my bestfriends 3rd miscarriage... I didn't tell her for almost 2 months until I knew she had recovered both physically and emotionally from that experience. While its true the announcement of a baby is a thrilling experience... people have to remember the world does not revolve around them and their procreating success. Sometimes being sensitive to the needs of other's takes priority over bullying our news into everyone's lives.

*sigh* I hate that you're going through this bunny...

:kiss:'s for Nibbs always being optomistic ;)
((more hugs)) for bunny. :(

Thanks guys :kiss: :kiss:

Jess, you did the right thing! :sohappy: Good for you for being sensitive... at least you didn't tell her on her birthday! :rolleyes: Some people.

Well, i'm off to go pick up my hunk 'o junk from the service center and fork over a lot of cash... sigh..
 

Fantasmic!329

Active Member
Original Poster
Awwww, well, next time you all come down you'll have to meet up with so you have some company....
I'd love to!
Usually my aunt joins us, but we can work around her. :lookaroun
My mom's just wary on the whole meeting-someone-from-Magic-in-person thing. :( I'll have to work on her....
Oh, that's it. I'm sitting here at work crying my eyes out. I just can't take it anymore.

I just got an e-mail from my SIL, who is now 8 weeks pregnant. Joy. Oh, and we're all having dinner at the in-laws tonight for my birthday. So much for that. Now we're going to spend all evening talking about the baby. I don't know how much more I can take. I'm so jealous, and hurt. How could she be so insensitve. She knows what kind of weekend I had... She knows what troubles we've been through. Why would she choose today to tell the family. :cry: :cry:
So sorry Bunny. :kiss:
 

nibblesandbits

Well-Known Member
Thanks guys :kiss: :kiss:

Jess, you did the right thing! :sohappy: Good for you for being sensitive... at least you didn't tell her on her birthday! :rolleyes: Some people.

Well, i'm off to go pick up my hunk 'o junk from the service center and fork over a lot of cash... sigh..

Bye Bunny! Hope your day gets better.

I sold them for some magic beans.

Oh man! Do I at least get some beans?
 

MommytoMJM

New Member
Oh, that's it. I'm sitting here at work crying my eyes out. I just can't take it anymore.

I just got an e-mail from my SIL, who is now 8 weeks pregnant. Joy. Oh, and we're all having dinner at the in-laws tonight for my birthday. So much for that. Now we're going to spend all evening talking about the baby. I don't know how much more I can take. I'm so jealous, and hurt. How could she be so insensitve. She knows what kind of weekend I had... She knows what troubles we've been through. Why would she choose today to tell the family. :cry: :cry:

((((HUGE HUGS)))) I'm so sorry girly. That is extremely insensitive of her... I wish I knew what else to say other than i'm so very sorry. My heart goes out to you and Marc. Sometimes people just have the worst timing... as is clearly the case today. Try not to let it get you down. Maybe cancel the family stuff tonight and go to a nice dinner with Marc.... promise each other you won't talk about the SIL. You don't need that on top of everything else... :kiss:'s sweetie. I wish I could be there to hug you right now.

Huge Hugs honey and What ^^She said, yeah, that!

I can say from experience that it's just pure selfishness that made Bunny's SIL do that today. When we found out we were pregs it was on the heels of my bestfriends 3rd miscarriage... I didn't tell her for almost 2 months until I knew she had recovered both physically and emotionally from that experience. While its true the announcement of a baby is a thrilling experience... people have to remember the world does not revolve around them and their procreating success. Sometimes being sensitive to the needs of other's takes priority over bullying our news into everyone's lives.

*sigh* I hate that you're going through this bunny...

:kiss:'s for Nibbs always being optomistic ;)
((more hugs)) for bunny. :(

^^^ Again, What she said!

I'd love to!
Usually my aunt joins us, but we can work around her. :lookaroun
My mom's just wary on the whole meeting-someone-from-Magic-in-person thing. :( I'll have to work on her....

So sorry Bunny. :kiss:

Show her MJ's Mousetales and Photo Album maybe she'll fall in love like so many others have...
 

jesserin

New Member
My mom's just wary on the whole meeting-someone-from-Magic-in-person thing. :( I'll have to work on her....


hahaha... I'm 24 and my mom had a cow and 1/2 when I said I was meeting bunny, Mr. bunny, Luke and Bonny! lol... i can't blame her though... you hear so many horror stories of internet catastrophe's... but

I can testify! Luke! Bunny! mr Bunny! and Bonny are all completely awsome people... I'll send your mama a letter of recomendation if that'll help. :lookaroun

:lol:
 

Fantasmic!329

Active Member
Original Poster
hahaha... I'm 24 and my mom had a cow and 1/2 when I said I was meeting bunny, Mr. bunny, Luke and Bonny! lol... i can't blame her though... you hear so many horror stories of internet catastrophe's... but

I can testify! Luke! Bunny! mr Bunny! and Bonny are all completely awsome people... I'll send your mama a letter of recomendation if that'll help. :lookaroun

:lol:
I didn't realize you met them!!?! I thought this was a soon-to-be thing. :lol:
I would love to meet all of you, its the mama that isn't so sure. :lol:
Maybe we'll have to "bump in" to each other. :lookaroun ;)
 

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