Sirwalterraleigh
Premium Member
I’m from what I always thought was the great American tradition of multigenerations fighting at the table of restaurants for the bill…to PAY it.I'm 45 and I would be mortified to have my Dad pay for anything for me. For me it's the other way, I would insist on taking care of him.
I watched my dad fight my grandmother…and I would do the same for my parents…except they died in 91 and 04 respectively…
So I battle on with my brother and my in-laws.
We have taken our in-laws on vacations…they have booked dvc rooms for us when in town at the same times.
Do they need to be paid for? No way…is my dvc contract not as good as theirs? Of course not.
It’s just what seems to be right to me.
But as an anecdote. We’re meeting friends and kids in Orlando during the holidays from Santa Barbara…they pay their own way and we’ll swap bills the whole time…
After we go one’s parents and sisters family is coming in from Te-HAS for the sisters “50th”…
The parents will foot the bill for entire trip for the sisters family…a cop, a teacher a 21 year old and a 16 year old…and they Beetch about everything the whole time…
So some things aren’t “common”…as much as I’d like them to be.