MEEEEE. I'm the one getting things together, making planning outlines and making the calls. DW gets consulted but weve been enough times to know what each other enjoys and wants to do so theres very few things that she ever changes. We know which restaurants we both enjoy and which attractions we both want to avoid. There are times we go our separate ways during the day and then rejoin later on. Over the years weve had some excellent TA's and a few horrible ones. So now we do the majority of our planning ourselves.