I'd personally go for the Wilderness Lodge, very beautiful, extremely well done and two fantastic restaurants, (Whispering Canyon and the Hoop Dee- Doo show) I loved visiting it as a kid (just to look around) and hope to stay there someday. I grew up going to the Coronado Springs,and rode the bus everywhere, which I now associate with the magic of Disney. As a child, around 4 years old, I didn't need naps, when I was up, I was up. But I understand the concerns there may need to have the kids to take naps. Even then I still suggest the Wilderness Lodge, the Contemporary seems a bit less kid friendly and more a bit more mature. But it's really to what fits your needs best, if you have the needs for convince, go for Contemporary, if you want to stay at a hotel that will take you somewhere else, then the Wilderness lodge.