When we first started going we were park commandos. Out first thing and all day to park close. This was in the 80's so you have to take into consideration what was open and the lack of crowds. As the years went on, probably around the 4th trip/year or so we started to freestyle and plan less. We had length of stay park hopper passes. We'd go to the early EMH park, come back around noonish, have some lunch and pool out. We would grab dinner at the hotel food court and then back to the EMH late close park. On occasion we'd do dinner in our target park. In the last few years of our regular trips, (2008-2012) we spent far less time in the parks and more sightseeing on property. We would go to a park for one or two rides then head back. At that time my daughter was 16+ and always had a friend with her. They would park commando, but without mom and dad. After not going at all after 2012 my wife wanted to see the Christmas decorations. We went in December 2018 and had a 4 day length of stay park hopper. We only used 3 days and hotel hopped most of the time.
So that's kind of the evolution of our being die-hard to casual park goers. I'm sure many others kind of mirror what we've done.