hcswingfield
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MayKingMajikHpn said:Here here, good point.
I am now at a point in my life that I have somebody to push around in a stroller, and it is a lot different then running around a park on your own. I love to move fast, and I don't like people slowing me up because they have to move slowly. I am just naturally a faster moving person, but at the same time I am courteous to those around me. I don't shove into people or knock them out of the way. I take extra wide turns, and avoid slower people as much as possible now that I have a stroller.
In my opinion these anti-stroller comments are ridiculous. Sure you are going to get bumped or heel-smashed (I have), but it happens. Should we all complain about people who bump into you with their bodies? Should they not be allowed in the parks? I mean I have had my two year old walking around in a area of the park that was quiet for a second and then all of a sudden in come a bunch of running kids knocking him down.
In my experience half of the people that get bumped by a stroller are the same people who try to cut ahead of a stroller because they see it as a weaker vestige....or they are the people holding hands ten people across pulling themselves in peoples ways.......or they are the people walking in front of you that just stop all of a sudden in the middle of a walkway. I mean think about it if you are on a freeway and you stop all of a sudden what happens? You get rear-ended, sure it hurts, but guess what, it is going to happen.
It is hard to manuever a stroller, and a lot of rude people and kids understand this, so they try to take advantage of this fact, and more than likely they get smashed. Other people are just unlucky in this matter, but if there weren't strollers there would be something else to complain about.
Things happen......deal with it.....
When I've been hit by strollers it has been either because someone aimed the stroller at me to play "chicken" so that I would clear out of the path they wanted to take, or because they were not looking where they were going, and didn't seem to care if the stroller carrying their infant hit someone or not. Most people with strollers are polite and sensitive and follow the basic rules of etiquette. I have no beef with strollers in general. I do have a beef with people who try to use their children's vehicle as a battering ram or a weapon. I don't run, I don't stop suddenly, I don't walk 10 across and I don't cut in front of anyone.