i love reading threads like this! i think so many people dismiss the value of your resort in the overall disney experience. i mean, just look at the resorts discussed so far in this post- you can't tell me it doesn't truly enhance your disney experience.....
i can say this from our own personal experience: we have tried many resorts so far and plan on trying them ALL. also, we've NEVER been truly unhappy with any resort, although two so far haven't seemed quite as special to us.
here's our list of where we've stayed:
poly
grand floridian
contemporary
old key west
saratoga springs
we're dvc members and we currently have the following anxiously booked for reservation:
akl
boardwalk
wilderness lodge
we've visited all of these resorts and are unbelievably anxious to finally get to visit each of our new bookings! but i think the most important thing to take into consideration is what type of experience are you looking for?
the only times we had a "less than disney" experience was when we stayed at okw and the contemporary. i honestly blame ourselves for that. on each trip, we just stayed there to stay there- so to speak. for example when we stayed at the contemporary, we didn't stay in the main building- don't ever, ever consider that (although i think the blt will be amazing...). also when we stayed at okw it was my son and i. i can easily see me wife and i loving this place if it were just us!
as to your original question, here's my list in order: (only of places already stayed at)
gf- maybe our best vaca ever! we enjoyed the 4/3 deal (pre dvc 4us).
awesome facilities, the boys loved the water pageant, seeing the mk at 4
am is surreal.....
poly- i was young, but i completely get what everyone has to say here!
saratoga springs resort- no doubt it was better with pi open,
(KUNGALOOSH!) but a spectacular resort never the less!
contemporary- no matter what, it has real disney feel!
okw- comfy and relaxed al the way!
again, it all depends on what youre going for. my wife and i are really looking forward to our trip to boardwalk in dec. we love epcot, and the kids not as much, so its perfect. the akl is so unique, i just can't wait to wake the kids up to see the savana! and i've always been a sucker for the wl.
one not mentioned, although i'm not certain it will fit your tastes based on this thread, is the wilderness campground. i honestly can't wait to fully enjoy this with the kids. it seems to be geared for the family experience so much more completely than anywhere else. it just screams "REAL DISNEY" to me!!!
no matter what, enjoy your trip! and KUNGALOOSH!