I hate it when people think that hating guns is the same as blaming guns. It's a simple matter of believing that if they didn't exist no one could use one. That won't happen ever and it shouldn't, but, there certainly is a reason for hating.
I hate it when you have begged someone over and over throughout your life to stop doing something negative to themselves and to get help, only to turn around in the present and realize they made themselves sick, like cancer sick.
Cancer: Parental unit 1, gone. Parental unit 2, may have cancer now.