Surprised no one has mentioned the beds. Let's face it, for the most part a Disney vacation is a physical beat down. 8+ miles walking a day, standing in lines, Florida heat/humidity, etc. . . A restful sleep experience is a must for a multi day trip or else you start to look forward more to going home than another day in the park.
Nothing on site, save perhaps the new 4 seasons I have yet to stay at, beats the westin heavenly bed after a full day in the parks. It's a nice mattress with a real down comforter, real down pillows and nice thread count sheets. Sorry but even the Disney deluxe beds don't compare, and don't even get me started on the crunchy beds of the mods and values.
Hotels are subjective, some like that mix of class with Disney theme and some like that upscale resort only feel of the swolphin, doesn't really make one better than the other. For me the bed swings it in the swolphin direction. Especially when I can get an alcove suite at the swan for the price of a woods view at a Disney deluxe.
I will say that that the lack of MDE is a bummer. When we do swolphin we use a town car service and it just doesn't have the same I've arrived at Disney fee of e bus!