I've never felt rushed at any restaurant at WDW, and I am a frequent European traveler -- I will tell you, though, that I feel dining in Paris and Amsterdam sometimes feels like a complete waste of an evening -- In general, Americans rarely spend more than 45 minutes to an hour having a typical family dinner in a restaurant -- by comparison my last dinner in Paris took 90 minutes just to be served the courses...
Most servers in the US are taught to keep an eye on the table and when you see appetizers wrapping up to bring the main entree, and then to watch and offer dessert as the main entree is near completion. People will then linger AFTERWARDS to chat and drink and enjoy coffee...in Europe I feel that that "chat and lingering" come DURING the meal and between courses. Its just a cultural difference.
That being said -- you do not need to rush through anything at WDW --- if you want a slight delay in the main course to your table, for example, just ASK YOUR SERVER to delay the main course for a little bit -- they will be happy to accommodate you.
SO -- with that in mind, the restaurants that I feel serve at that more leisurely pace are California Grill, The Hollywood Brown Derby, Chefs de France, and Monsieur Paul.
