Sirwalterraleigh
Premium Member
I wish I could send that mentality back to 1959 to be buried…where it belongs.I feel that! I spend a lot of holidays with my husband's family, and it's the same way. The worst part is that the rest of the family subconsciously lumps me and Gabe into the category of the "women who have to cook and clean" and we automatically get ushered into the group that has to do everything too.
That's another great example of subtle homophobia and sexism. Equating gay men and women. Same with the ridiculous "So, who's the guy and who's the girl?" line if questioning. We're both very much men and identify as such.