Each person is different, Yes its alot of money but its worth it . I dont go to Disney for me, Yes as adults we have fun to , but we go for our kids and we save up during the year and we let everyone pick something they would like to do. Yes it costs money for everything at Disney but it would not be offered if people did not pay for it.
We have been to Disney 4 times now, first time was All star, GF every since, We like it and would not stay anywhere else, we save we go and we have fun.
Everyone works hard for there money and its up to each of us how we soend it, We choose our kids and we have fun each day and night, yes its alot of money but you remind kids during the year and they help us save, but when we are there we go from AM to PM and dont stop.
My daughter is 6 now and adores the tea party, she looks forward to it. Its not for everyone, but If you go for the experience , have fun and just let it happen.