Not a proposal just a romantic surprise....Help needed!

[psifreek27]

So I am going to be in Disney this weekend (Magic Kingdom), and my girlfriend isnt too big on disney parks persay but she is totally into wanting to enjoy them (she has already stated she cant wait to kiss me in front of the castle lol)

And I would love to do something really special for her while we are there... So far I want to let her know how special she is to me and how happy she makes me, and im thinking of writing her a letter/poem like thing that intertwines words like "wishes","Dreams","magic" and the way she makes me feel.

And im considering doing this at the magic kingdom rose garden right before wishes or after... I basically want to make a promise to her about how much i care and will always be by her side (marriage although i would love it, would just be tooo much right now, although it can happen in the future)
Ive considered promise rings, simple small rings...or maybe some sort o matching pendant with our names...

anybody have any ideas on what else i could possibly do in magic kingdom to make her feel special?

 

[DisneyChik17]

So I am going to be in Disney this weekend (Magic Kingdom), and my girlfriend isnt too big on disney parks persay but she is totally into wanting to enjoy them (she has already stated she cant wait to kiss me in front of the castle lol)

And I would love to do something really special for her while we are there... So far I want to let her know how special she is to me and how happy she makes me, and im thinking of writing her a letter/poem like thing that intertwines words like "wishes","Dreams","magic" and the way she makes me feel.

And im considering doing this at the magic kingdom rose garden right before wishes or after... I basically want to make a promise to her about how much i care and will always be by her side (marriage although i would love it, would just be tooo much right now, although it can happen in the future)
Ive considered promise rings, simple small rings...or maybe some sort o matching pendant with our names...

anybody have any ideas on what else i could possibly do in magic kingdom to make her feel special?

That is a really sweet idea. I would love for someone to do that for me one day.

Advice on that: get it done in calligraphy and emphasize the words that are "Disney." That way it could become a framed keepsake for the two of you. :]

 

[H20Babie]

To expand on the above, if you decide to go with the promise ring idea, you could scroll the letter and use the ring as its seal.

 

[Phonedave]

What are her likes/interests

Remember your want to make HER feel special. The best way to make anybody feel special is to do something for THEM and for THEM only. Not because of the way it may make you feel.

"Guess what hon? I waited in line for 12 hours and got us Super Bowl tickets on the 50 yard line for your birthday!" Yeah, nice effort, but if your girl is not into football - well ..... you get the idea.

The poem is a nice idea (if she would like that), but try to incorporate something that she likes (unless poetry is her thing), or is personal to her. It shows that not only do you care enough to do something she likes, but that you know enought about her in the first place to know her likes. Of course if you have no idea what she likes, then you have a bit of a task on your hands


Of course I am divorced after 10 years of marriage, so whatever advice I give might be worthless


-dave

 

[phenom1307]

To expand on the above, if you decide to go with the promise ring idea, you could scroll the letter and use the ring as its seal.

with the whole ring idea she might get the idea that it's a proposal...i'm probably wrong but you never know

 

[TestTrack]

with the whole ring idea she might get the idea that it's a proposal...i'm probably wrong but you never know

I was thinking the same thing....be careful whenever pulling out a ring in any random/romantic way.

 

[figmentmom]

with the whole ring idea she might get the idea that it's a proposal...i'm probably wrong but you never know

I was thinking the same thing....be careful whenever pulling out a ring in any random/romantic way.

I thought the same thing. If there's any chance your girlfriend might be hoping for a proposal, she could be very hurt and/or disappointed by something that's so close and yet so far from one!

Don't misunderstand - I think your ideas are romantic, and she's obviously very special to you, but you might be better off without any kind of ring. (And DON'T get down on one knee to tell her you'll "always be there!")

 

[WDWFigment]

Unless it's some sort of holiday, I wouldn't do anything tangible, because, like others above have said, any movement to 'get the present out' may be misconstrued for a proposal (obviously she'd realize it wasn't about 5 seconds later, but then it's too late...) Go with the poem idea.