And I am sad about the future of no surprises too.
I do disagree though about the changing times and everyone wanting to plan everything planned out. I don't, but I will. Take ADRs, I'm forced to into this system or the overwhelming odds are against me on the fly. I feel the same about FP+ Unless this FP+ system falls flat on its face because Disney can't deliver FP+ experiences reliably and to guests satisfaction, I will, like ADRs be forced into complying, the only other option being queue up in the long standby line. Opting out is not going to be an option if this all rolls out as designed. I hope it does fall on its face, I love spontaneity on vacation.
That's exactly how I feel with ADRs. I feel like I'm forced into the system...and that there is no chance of me working around it.
I think Trip Reports are my favorite thing online, not the rumors. I tend to avoid ride videos and other things, but tips and reading other's experiences has made my trips better in many ways.
For example, I probably would never have tried Jiko's had I not read a few trip reports that gave it glowing reviews. Now it's my favorite restaurant on the parks by far.
Also, I would never in the past have considered staying at the non-Disney run Swan or Dolphin as a viable option, but after reading reports, I have changed that view.
Finding little tips and tricks is nice.
I don't think it removes the magic, rather it helps enhance it. I go every year, and it's not going to be "new" to me as a result, unless I take another long hiatus. Keeping up on things at the parks gives me an idea of what I'm walking into.
That being said, when I know something new is going in, I shun most news about it. I stayed away from Cars Land news, for that reason, before my DL trip. Now that I've seen it, and been blown away in person, I will happily dig through those threads / youtube videos. I am doing the same with the New Fantasyland as well, outside of general notices. I know I want to get a Brew, I know I want to eat at BOG, etc...but, I've stayed away from detailed threads or ride videos, because I want to be surprised.
The internet is just a tool. Like any tool, how you use it is up to you.