Well, in reading all of these posts about good/bad service, it one thing occurs to me:
Have we all lost our sense of humor?
Now, I'm not condoning the use of rude/foul language, but it sure seems like we all take things way too seriously these days. Is it me, or is everyone itching for a fight these days? I mean, every time I turn on the television, there's another story about how someone "said" something to someone else, and now everyone's upset about it. We should be worrying about a lot more serious issues in this world, than what someone "said" to us. And I don't want to hear how "words" can hurt. I understand that there are times when words cut deep. But I beleive it is a true measure of a person to walk away from situations like this without confrontation. Having said that, confronting the CastMember was another option. Take him/her off to the side and express your views in an adult manner. Let's remember in a lot of cases the CastMembers tend to be very young or very old. Either way, some latitude may be in order, but again, I'm not condoning rude behavior.
It just seems to me that our society has turned into a very aggressive/get even type of society. It's funny how people can get so upset about things like this, yet when it comes to defending our country, things seem to change. (just some food for thought)