I've been to both the Luaus, Disney's and Seaworld's. I enjoyed both of them very much. I think the one at Disney is more geared towards kids then the one at Seaworld. When I went, there weren't a lot of younger kids. We were placed at a table with other people, so I don't know if this would be the most romantic thing. They have pretty good food from what I remember. I think you should go and see the show. It had some really cool dances and it was a lot of fun! Hope you have a good trip!