What's in Dublin or Spain or Aruba? No Disney rides, that's for sure. Disney World is better. It's safer, with no creep trying to steal your wallet. It's cleaner and better kept.
If you are too tired of the games, just don't play. Stay away from RotR if it's too much work to remember getting up at 7 to fight the crowd for it. In fact, my policy is, never fight the crowd for anything to avoid exhaustion. Just cut out those things that require fighting, there are not that many of them. As long as you can afford it, Genie+ is working better than fastpass+, and LL works great except for RotR. It does require you to use your phone, but it's easy to learn and do, and doesn't require staring at the phone all day. There's no need for the VIP at all, as long as you ignore RotR.
I know that Disney has taken the "PAY UP" approach in recent years, but it is still the best place in the world for the old or the young, so it is best to accept it and live it with it, rather than throw the baby out with the bath water. What other choice do you have? So just pay and don't worry about it. In the end, it's just money.
With me, I've figured out all kinds of ways to cut costs during our Disney trips so that in the coming years, we will be paying Disney LESS than we did in the past. For one thing, no more desserts! I never liked buying desserts like Mickey Bars for the kids anyway, but I felt obligated in the past. Now I have a good strong excuse for the kids: we have to pay for Genie+. And no more toys, we have to pay for LL. A good way to teach kids the value of money.