nibblesandbits
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Hi Roxxy!!! I've missed you lately!!! How are you?!
(And you better take good video of Vince! :lol: )
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(And you better take good video of Vince! :lol: )
nibblesandbits
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Aw...look at the puppy!!! So cute!!You are sweet! :kiss:
I hope your husband is taking good care of you! I think that cold has traveled from coast to coast because it’s arrived here. :lol: I just started with a cold.
I got a new puppy: His name is Hotdog!
So vince, I was wondering, would you like to eat at the Blue Bayou when we see each other? I’ve been dying to go back.
barnum42
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You are sweet! :kiss:
I hope your husband is taking good care of you! I think that cold has traveled from coast to coast because it’s arrived here. :lol: I just started with a cold.
I got a new puppy: His name is Hotdog!
So vince, I was wondering, would you like to eat at the Blue Bayou when we see each other? I’ve been dying to go back.
Key-yute!
What breed? From the paws he looks like he's going to be big - but that could be a trick of the photo.
nibblesandbits
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TGIF *huggles* back at cha!TGIF huggles to all
figmentmom
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I got a new puppy: His name is Hotdog!
Awww...
...what an adorable puppy! Congratulations!!!
Hi all! I'm back. Well, part of me is back anyway. It's so weird. I'm still getting adjusted to returning to normal life. The last two weeks were such an emotional roller coaster for me. The reason I didn't say much about this trip, unlike past trips, was because it wasn't about Disney this time. I went on this trip to be with the girl I had fallen for. Over the last year, I had gotten to know this wonderful and amazing girl from California. She was so perfect for me. We had practically everything in common, from our personalities to our dreams. She was prolly more Ariel-obsessed than I was. I had fallen hard for her. So this trip was for her, a chance to spend time with her. And it was so wonderful. We had a great time together. I eventually even summoned up the courage to tell her how I truly felt about her. I didn't really get an answer from her though. It was neither a yes nor a no. It felt more like she wasn't ready for something like that, which I understand. If it's meant to be, perhaps it will happen someday down the line. But for now, I just wanna be a part of her life and be the best friend I can be for her. I care about her so much. But I didn't get the closure I needed on this trip. I got really no answers and just more questions about my future. It's as hazy as ever now. And we never got to say good-bye to each other. I really wanted to see her one last time. I was sobbing on the plane ride back cause I didn't get to say good-bye. I haven't been able to reach her yet. I hope I do soon. There's still so much I wanna tell her. I think I've changed somewhat since I've gotten to know her. For better or worse, I don't know right now. But I am so glad to have known her. And I really hope I can see her again someday soon. My heart feels like it's getting pulled into a million places right now. I'm not used to this feeling. I don't know if I ever will be.
Nemo14
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((hugs))
MommytoMJM
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(((((Hugs Vince)))) I'm sorry it wasn't more of what you needed.
Dude - I have my fingers crossed for you. I know exactly how you feel and its been years now. The first time I asked my wife to marry me she said - no. She wasn't ready yet. I stayed with her even though at times I felt like the biggest chump in the world. We're married now, but I spent a long time in that uncertain place you're at. In the mean time, you'll go crazy if you think about it too much, so try and think about other things from time to time, if possible. So...who's going to win the Stanley Cup (I hope my memory is correct and you are indeed a hockey fan or that question is going to look terribly odd)?
Well, I'm not quite ready for that yet... but I would have liked to have something between us. I think I just need to talk to her about it. She's very hard to reach though. She was hard to reach when I was in Cali, imagine how hard it is now that I'm across the country. And I have a very difficult decision ahead of me as to where to take my life. It used to point in just one direction and that was my focus. Now another path has opened up and could be an even better option. But I really don't know. Both destinations have their strengths and weaknesses. It used to be my head and heart would always be at odds. Now it seems like my heart is now fighting with itself. It doesn't know what it wants and it's confusing the heck out of me. Sometimes I wonder why I have to be this foolish dreamer. I wish I could be like other people and just do the safe, normal, logical life... but my heart refuses to let me. I've noticed following my heart always seems to lead me to trouble, but if I don't follow it, I can never be happy.
Gosh, hockey. How I miss hockey. I hope I can find enjoyment in it again. I dunno right now. There are so many hot teams. Tampa Bay looks so dangerous right now and I do not want to face them. I'm hoping the best for my Penguins.
barnum42
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Not wishing to rain on your parade, but given the modern methods of communication with phones, cell phone and email, it's not that difficult to get in touch with someone.
If she's not communicating it could mean she wants you to back off. Whether this is to give her some space from being overwhelmed by your honesty or the unfortunate possibility that she is just not into you I can't say.
I've been there and feel for you. Kudos for having the courage the be open and put yourself on the line. It was a huge risk which just may not be working as you wished.
The frustration of just wanting to get in touch and iron things out must be tearing you apart, but if she does not want to talk I'm afraid there is not a lot you can do to push the point without running the risk of becoming a stalker in her eyes.
I wish you well and hope thing work out for you.
No, you don't understand. This girl is very hard to reach... for anyone! Yeah, it's been like this for a while. Trust me, I used to kill myself over her never getting back to me. But it was never anything against me, she is just sooo busy with life that she rarely gets a free moment and when she does, a ton of people are contacting her. So if she gets back to you, consider yourself lucky.
But anyways, we did get to talk last night and we got to tell each other what we wanted to say. It was very open and honest. In the end, I got the closure I had wanted. Sadly, it wasn't the answer I had hoped for but I understood her reasons. At least, now I know for sure. I cannot build my life around her. I have to do what's right for me and she for her. We said we wanted to stay the best of friends and still be a part of each other's lives. I told her that I loved her and that she'll always have a place in my heart.
It feels so weird now. This whole last year wasn't for nothing. I got to know and love someone very special. Moving on seems like such a difficult task though. I guess it will take time. I wish I knew where to go from here.
But anyways, we did get to talk last night and we got to tell each other what we wanted to say. It was very open and honest. In the end, I got the closure I had wanted. Sadly, it wasn't the answer I had hoped for but I understood her reasons. At least, now I know for sure. I cannot build my life around her. I have to do what's right for me and she for her. We said we wanted to stay the best of friends and still be a part of each other's lives. I told her that I loved her and that she'll always have a place in my heart.
It feels so weird now. This whole last year wasn't for nothing. I got to know and love someone very special. Moving on seems like such a difficult task though. I guess it will take time. I wish I knew where to go from here.
barnum42
New Member
Good that you have a definite closure. Nothing worse that beating yourself up with your mind wondering "what if."
That you know you can move on is good.
Where to move on? Join a club and socialise in the nearby real world, take lessons in something like dancing or see if there is speed dating in your area. You can't beat face to face for getting to know people.
figmentmom
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Vince, Joe has given you some excellent advice here. I'm sorry things didn't work out, but solid and lasting relationships need time (and proximity!) to develop. Take the time to truly get to know someone face to face before you give your heart away - you'll be glad you did. :wave:
nibblesandbits
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:kiss: :kiss: