Hey Steffee, I would say do the castle! Our girls were 2,6 & 8 when they finally got their first time at the castle. The one thing we did was let them dress as their favorite Princess . After we had our meal and photos and autographs my sister and I took our girls into the restroom and changed their clothes transforming them back into regular clothes, we then stored the princess getups in a locker til the end of the day. Let me tell you those photos of our Princesses w/their fav. Princesses are everyones favorites, and you can get just about any Princess costumes from Disney.