How long will you enjoy theme parks, or how long DID you enjoy the rides?

zurgandfriend

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On the road of life, I see exit 70 approaching. That said we have been visiting WDW regularly since 1994. I would like to think we will continue to vacation there. We tend to visit more of the tamer attractions now, I have a new-found appreciation for the country bears jamboree and when I visit the water parks I am a lazy river person. After all these years however, I am still discovering things I have never noticed before. We enjoy the dining the resorts and people watching. As others have stated the crowns concern me. My DW and I are not as young as we once were and tend to enjoy a slower pace. Sometimes I feel like I am going to be trampled by a herd of people.
 

John park hopper

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I might be in the minority here, but we don't love theme parks. I'm seriously planning a trip to WDW for the family as something we need to do once. We like cities (going to Boston, Philly, Montreal), or country (Catskills, upstate NY). After WDW, we're doing to Legoland New York when it opens since it will only be a couple of hours from our home. And maybe Universal Studios. That's going to be it for us.
I'm just the opposite --hate cities, do love the country and WDW
 

Adam Snider

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Im 32 and have been going to the parks since I can remember, did a stint in the College Program, and was a FL local for about 3 years after college. The thing I’ve noticed in the past 5 years or so is that how we (my wife and I) enjoy WDW has changed. It’s not that we like going any more or less than we ever have, it’s just changed. 10 years ago the thought of relaxing at our resort and having a pool day was absolutely nonsense, now we look forward to it! There is a focus now on food and drinks and trying new places, meaning some days there is a long sit down lunch in the middle of the day. We still love the parks and the attractions but it’s become more and more obvious that there is SO MUCH more to do.
So to answer your question, I don’t think the magic will ever go away for us it will just continue to evolve over time.
We are the same way. I went with my wife for the first time in 2012. She was a big Disney fan, I was not. (Of course that has changed now and we are both Disney nerds) Even then we were all about riding the rides and I thought sitting down at a sit down restaurant was a waste of time. Now the first thing we plan are where we are going to eat. It’s less about attractions and more about getting new experiences and trying different foods.
 

eliza61nyc

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Thanks for your post, it was great. I just copied this part, why do you not go to Epcot? Do you just do the MK or the other three outside of Epcot?
hey Phil,
Sorry about the confusion. Yes I do enjoy Epcot, I was alluding to one of the complaints here that because Epcot is getting Ip style rides that it's becoming just like Magic Kingdom. I don't think Epcot is any thing like MK.
 

graphite1326

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Just a simple question here because there was one thing that struck me as a man in his late 30s. I am getting older, I am not 20 or even 25. I am a married man with children and much different things on my mind than in my teens or 20s. I witness this first hand as I realize the "scene" at a club is not geared towards me anymore. The music isn't what I recognize or grew up with, I don't see people I know anymore that are there and to be quite frank I am more content just sitting around a pub with some friends in that sort of scene, or of course, gearing things towards family outings and vacations. I've accepted that those things change, and the club scene in general is what appears to be on a slow but gradual decline I find because clubs that were open when I was younger are closed and not replaced by the same amount. It leads me to believe that texting, anti-socialism and stuff like online dating has replaced a lot of social aspects that I was used to.

Okay, so enough about that rant, it is what it is.

But what does this mean for enjoying theme/amusement parks? Well, when I went after a long hiatus in 2009 it had been 7 years. I took my wife for her first time. I am not in my early 20s anymore but my late 20s. I told myself that I shouldn't worry if the park doesn't have the same "feel" for me anymore. Well, it was the same, and then some. And even last year when we went with our kids it is the same, even in my late 30s. But it has struck me, I am not 60, or 70. I am not even close to 50. Is there going to be a time when this "scene" is not going to be for me anymore. Whether it is a physical aspect of not wanting to walk around or just having interest faded.

Tell me your stories about it. Has it dwindled for you, and if it did what age was it? Or could you see yourself doing this at 80 years old?
Well I am 60+ and have been going since my kids were little. Since 1996. I can tell you this. When I hit my mid 30's I was pretty much grown up mentally. Then it seems like 5 years later and here I am 30+ years older. My mental attitude didn't change much after 35. I still feel the same now but my body doesn't agree. I still like going to WDW and riding all the rides. I remember seeing older men when I was a young man getting on ToT and thinking, he's really going on this ride? Now I am that old man. The only ride I skip now is Space Mt. It's just too rough for me now.

An added note; when we first started going it was gung-ho from dawn to dusk at the parks. That hasn't changed for us. We still do that and don't take afternoon breaks. That's for lightweights.
 

thomas998

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In my early 50's and if I'm being honest with myself I will probably stop going when my youngest gets tired of the parks. We've already gotten to the point that our oldest doesn't always go with us anymore because she sometimes has other things she would rather do during school breaks. I've ridden some of the rides so many times now that I don't really enjoy them as rides and just end up occupying my time on them by trying to see how certain things work or illusions were accomplished. Maybe when my kids have kids I will take them to see the joy in their faces when they see Disney for the first time... I am amazed that some older adults can enjoy it as much as they do on their own.

If I'm being honest with myself there are only a handful of rides over all the parks that I enjoy riding, certainly not enough to justify the current price and time commitment required to enjoy them simply as rides.
 

jloucks

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It is not the park nor the attraction I grow weary of. It is the people. Or, more accuracy, the massive sweaty understandably-frustrated mobs of people that wear on me.

I too am waiting on grandkids and suspect that is the next time I will brave WDW. The last visit was just too darn packed. What's that opposite of calm refreshing? Oh yea, chaotic and draining! Thats WDW today.

All that being said, 20 years between me going in my teens and then going again with my kids. It was still fun! I hadn't aged out of the fun yet. I have been several times since 2012 and can definitely get joy living vicariously through my kids. Which is why going without kids seems a little weird to me. ...not that I won't someday give it a go and see what happens.
 

mdcpr

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I might be in the minority here, but we don't love theme parks. I'm seriously planning a trip to WDW for the family as something we need to do once. We like cities (going to Boston, Philly, Montreal), or country (Catskills, upstate NY). After WDW, we're doing to Legoland New York when it opens since it will only be a couple of hours from our home. And maybe Universal Studios. That's going to be it for us.
@larryz - I know shocking. I know so many people that complained their parents never took them to WDW, so I don't want to be one of those. Since we can afford to have great WDW experience, gotta do it once. Worst thing that could happen, they will not like the parks, but we're staying at the Wilderness Lodge, so we can do the resort-thing, if the theme-park thing does not work.
 

John park hopper

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@larryz - I know shocking. I know so many people that complained their parents never took them to WDW, so I don't want to be one of those. Since we can afford to have great WDW experience, gotta do it once. Worst thing that could happen, they will not like the parks, but we're staying at the Wilderness Lodge, so we can do the resort-thing, if the theme-park thing does not work.
You say you don't like theme parks. I hope you don't go thinking you are not going to like it--- then chances are you won't.
 

mdcpr

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WDW transcends the standard "theme park" experience, even in its current state. It's galling to admit it, but that's why we're here, now, isn't it?
I've been 4 times. This is a statement as a family. True that WDW transcends the theme park experience. When I was 12 I went to Epcot and I was convinced it was the best thing I've ever seen in my life. I never go into any situations thinking I'm not going to like something, I just like to be prepared in case it's not our thing as a family. My tagline is 'I try everything once.' ;)
 

Texas84

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My parents took us kids to Disneyland in the 70s when we lived in northern California. They finally stopped going to WDW after my father was unable to walk. I am a Passholder and now get to use his points.
 

Smiley/OCD

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I might be in the minority here, but we don't love theme parks. I'm seriously planning a trip to WDW for the family as something we need to do once. We like cities (going to Boston, Philly, Montreal), or country (Catskills, upstate NY). After WDW, we're doing to Legoland New York when it opens since it will only be a couple of hours from our home. And maybe Universal Studios. That's going to be it for us.
Wait...if you prep for this family trip right (like it's looks like you're doing), you'll get bit by the Disney bug...and LOVE it!! The most important key to take out of it is not to enter the property looking for the negative...if you do, trust me, you'll find it! The biggest thing is to look for all the small stuff...that will make your trip AWESOME!!
 

mdcpr

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Wait...if you prep for this family trip right (like it's looks like you're doing), you'll get bit by the Disney bug...and LOVE it!! The most important key to take out of it is not to enter the property looking for the negative...if you do, trust me, you'll find it! The biggest thing is to look for all the small stuff...that will make your trip AWESOME!!
I’m definitely not looking for negatives. I’ll enjoy for what it is, and will share my views later on.
 

jloucks

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I’m definitely not looking for negatives. I’ll enjoy for what it is, and will share my views later on.

Honestly, I was not thrilled about going in 2012. The first time since 1986ish. It seemed too expensive and too far. Especially with a Six Flag 30 minutes away. But I had perfect aged kids and my wife was pressuring me. Fine! We'll go!

Yea, lol, WDW is not the same Six Flags. Turned out I loved it! A lot. We went in May with very low crowds. We went twice more (3 if you count Uni), but the crowds just kept growing to the point it was miserable. Oh, and we always went "off season", so we gave it a good try to avoid the mob scene.

I digress, but my point is that you can dread it and then be pleasantly surprised. Probably a personality thing. Happens to me a lot. Dread something and then enjoy it.
 

Raineman

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I am 45, and I plan on continuing to visit WDW and experiencing everything it has to offer, until I can't physically do anything, the cost becomes more than I can afford, or any perceived negatives of the WDW experience start outnumbering the fun, enjoyment and nostalgia I get from WDW. I noticed during our last visit that simple things like the behavior of other visitors and the effect of miles of walking each day started to get to me a bit, especially the last part of each day when I was starting to get tired and a bit grumpy.
 

Michaelson

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I'm 64, my wife 66, and the family 'joke' is we have to ride Mission Space Orange every year to have our annual 'heart test'.

We've passed every year so far, and don't expect anything to change NEXT trip.

Yeah, it's all in what YOU can handle and want to do. There's no hard and fast rule here. You can be in your 90's and hit every ride with equal gusto as a youngster, or you can be an old '30 something' and not want to ride anything that is remotely 'fast'.

Your call, and anything is correct here.

Regards! Michaelson
 
I think your love for it would grow because you see it from a different point of view. I've been to The World 20+ times. My mom, sister & I used to go every fall. We would ride rides, sure, but we would also wander around and enjoy a glass of wine. This past March, I took my 2 and 4 year olds for their first visits. It was such a different experience for me, but it was just as magical! So I think you love it - just in a different perspective!
 

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