I'm having a difficult time maneuvering through the parks with all of the different personalities in my family, and was wondering if anyone else has had a similar situation and has some tips for dealing with it.
For some background, I LOVE going to the parks with my fiance, and with my friends (I'm currently down here on the college program, so I come to the parks a lot and it's completely fine.) I haven't been with my family since I was much younger, so I don't remember too much about what it was like back then, but they're currently here visiting me, and it's just a lot of competing personalities that are making things difficult.
They keep asking me to plan everything for them, and they ask me what we should do and what I want to do, etc... but it doesn't matter to me! I want to do whatever they want, I'm here all the time. So no one makes any decisions about anything, and everyone is just completely disorganized. I don't really know if I'm explaining this well... I love my family, but I have no idea what to do with them here. They don't "get" Disney like we on this forum do. They complain about the rain in Florida, and about the heat, and waiting in line, and the walking, and I'm just stressed out trying to coordinate everything and make everyone happy. I feel like a tour guide who is trying to coordinate all kinds of unreasonable demands. They're only here for a couple of days, but they have so many things they want to do that it's impossible to do all they want, but no one can make a decision and give me an answer when I ask what their priorities are.
I don't know if I'm explaining this well enough, I'm sure every family has their own issues, I just feel so much pressure because they want me to make all these decisions for them, and yet they still just complain about things that should be expected when you're visiting Florida/WDW. I have an amazing time here with my friends and fiance, and cannot believe how difficult it is visiting the parks with my family. I'm at a loss trying to please everyone, and almost wish I had just gone home for this couple of days instead of having had them come here.
-end rant- Sorry for the novel of the post, I clearly needed to vent lol.
For some background, I LOVE going to the parks with my fiance, and with my friends (I'm currently down here on the college program, so I come to the parks a lot and it's completely fine.) I haven't been with my family since I was much younger, so I don't remember too much about what it was like back then, but they're currently here visiting me, and it's just a lot of competing personalities that are making things difficult.
They keep asking me to plan everything for them, and they ask me what we should do and what I want to do, etc... but it doesn't matter to me! I want to do whatever they want, I'm here all the time. So no one makes any decisions about anything, and everyone is just completely disorganized. I don't really know if I'm explaining this well... I love my family, but I have no idea what to do with them here. They don't "get" Disney like we on this forum do. They complain about the rain in Florida, and about the heat, and waiting in line, and the walking, and I'm just stressed out trying to coordinate everything and make everyone happy. I feel like a tour guide who is trying to coordinate all kinds of unreasonable demands. They're only here for a couple of days, but they have so many things they want to do that it's impossible to do all they want, but no one can make a decision and give me an answer when I ask what their priorities are.
I don't know if I'm explaining this well enough, I'm sure every family has their own issues, I just feel so much pressure because they want me to make all these decisions for them, and yet they still just complain about things that should be expected when you're visiting Florida/WDW. I have an amazing time here with my friends and fiance, and cannot believe how difficult it is visiting the parks with my family. I'm at a loss trying to please everyone, and almost wish I had just gone home for this couple of days instead of having had them come here.
-end rant- Sorry for the novel of the post, I clearly needed to vent lol.