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[mpoppins76]

it was good... turns out friday night wasn't an actual date which was good; but I treated it like one and I did well. But i had an absolute blast with the girl; she was realllllly cool, very down to earth, and we had so much in common... probably will hangout again; but both kind of put it out there that we're not getting involved in any way shape or form... just hanging out and getting to know each other... so its nice, takes the edge off...

Saturday night was fun, watched the sox with a few people...

then sunday night they cancelled game 7 and just let the Rays go to the World Series cuz the Sox are so nasty it wouldn't have been fair to actually play the game... :lookaroun

WHAT??? YOU HAD A DATE?!!! I'm so out of the loop

That sounds reasonable. Stay safe, sweetie!

I need to get going guys, have a lot to do today....the more I get done around here this week, the less DH and I will need to do during his time off. Which means we relax more - yay! TTFN! :kiss:

Bye Jenny, have a great day!! :kiss:

 

[mpoppins76]

Yeah me too sister! Everytime we saw the preview for that movie Quarantine, I was like nooooo way.

I think the last scary movie I saw was Candyman in highschool

 

[Dukeblue1016]

I'm allergic to scary movies :lookaroun

i do not like scary movies at all... but for some reason this one was like... I don't know...

it hands down scared me more than I have ever in my life been scared. I legitimately slept with the slights on and didn't even actually sleep at all for a good week after I saw it (I was 18 years old... hahahaha)

but it's REALLY good...

I think I like it so much because it's so absurdly terrifying while at the same time being a good movie... AND it was original (i mean, yeah this was a remake of a Japanese movie... but the Japanese movie was original so this was still an original idea)

and it's not your typical... teenagers being haunted by some killer, or isn't your typical torture; gory death scenes...


it legitimately scared me more than the Exorcist... (i'll never watch the exorcist again though, ever) but... I'll watch the ring again... I want my roommates to watch it, I like watching scary movies I've already seen with people who haven't seen them...

watch it sammy!!!

 

[Dukeblue1016]

WHAT??? YOU HAD A DATE?!!! I'm so out of the loop

*sigh*



remember the girl I was telling you about?

i think the last you heard was we were gonna hangout LAST weekend (not this past one but the one before) and she was gonna comeout with me and my friends? and then she fell asleep and didn't feel good so she didn't come out...

so thursday of last week she texted me asking what I was doing that weekend... and I had been like (before she texted me) "I'm not gonna bother, she seems cool but i don't know her, and i asked her out kinda and she said no and I'm overthinking this so I'll just let this one go..." kinda thing, like clearly it wasn't a big deal...

well she texted me... and my friends were pretty much all gone for the weekend... and i said that and said so i had no plans... and she said her friends ditched her too and she was looking for something to do...

so we agreed to go out for drinks friday night... I thought it was a date...

long story short; she cameover like 7:30... we had a drink at my place until almost 9... (this went not awkward, but somewhat... quiet, not bad at all but I had feared ALLLLL DAY it'd be wicked awkward since her and I never had an actual conversation, luckily we were watching tv... )

but then we went to the bar, she didn't drink because she drove over, I just had a few to take the edge off... and we talked for like 3 straight hours without ANY awkwardness, no silence... no dull moments... I mean it went extremely well... it was a lot of fun and it was really nice...

at the end of the night I told her I had fun and we should do it again sometime, she was like "honestly Joe, I had a BLAST... but I just don't wanna give you the wrong idea or lead you on or anything..."

so i was just like... "seriously, I'm so relieved you said that... because I'm not sure if I told you or not, but I just got out of a 7 year relationship like 2.5 months ago... I'm not looking for anything either... and I'd NEVER want you to think I was using you as a rebound or anything... I simply had fun tonight with you, thought we had a lot in common, and would just love to hangout again sometime"

and then I could tell she was relieved... and she was like "yeah absolutely"

so I mean... it wasn't a date for that reason... but i know we both had a fun night and maybe we'll hangout again sometime, maybe not...

but I treated it like a date, and I didn't talk about Allie, didn't think about Allie... wasn't awkward... and carried good conversation...

 

[mpoppins76]

Back. Had to pull off and get gas....rolled in on fumes, that was a close one :dazzle:

*sigh*



remember the girl I was telling you about?

i think the last you heard was we were gonna hangout LAST weekend (not this past one but the one before) and she was gonna comeout with me and my friends? and then she fell asleep and didn't feel good so she didn't come out...

so thursday of last week she texted me asking what I was doing that weekend... and I had been like (before she texted me) "I'm not gonna bother, she seems cool but i don't know her, and i asked her out kinda and she said no and I'm overthinking this so I'll just let this one go..." kinda thing, like clearly it wasn't a big deal...

well she texted me... and my friends were pretty much all gone for the weekend... and i said that and said so i had no plans... and she said her friends ditched her too and she was looking for something to do...

so we agreed to go out for drinks friday night... I thought it was a date...

long story short; she cameover like 7:30... we had a drink at my place until almost 9... (this went not awkward, but somewhat... quiet, not bad at all but I had feared ALLLLL DAY it'd be wicked awkward since her and I never had an actual conversation, luckily we were watching tv... )

but then we went to the bar, she didn't drink because she drove over, I just had a few to take the edge off... and we talked for like 3 straight hours without ANY awkwardness, no silence... no dull moments... I mean it went extremely well... it was a lot of fun and it was really nice...

at the end of the night I told her I had fun and we should do it again sometime, she was like "honestly Joe, I had a BLAST... but I just don't wanna give you the wrong idea or lead you on or anything..."

so i was just like... "seriously, I'm so relieved you said that... because I'm not sure if I told you or not, but I just got out of a 7 year relationship like 2.5 months ago... I'm not looking for anything either... and I'd NEVER want you to think I was using you as a rebound or anything... I simply had fun tonight with you, thought we had a lot in common, and would just love to hangout again sometime"

and then I could tell she was relieved... and she was like "yeah absolutely"

so I mean... it wasn't a date for that reason... but i know we both had a fun night and maybe we'll hangout again sometime, maybe not...

but I treated it like a date, and I didn't talk about Allie, didn't think about Allie... wasn't awkward... and carried good conversation...

Oh Joe that's great! And she could be just what you need right now....a female friend who you enjoy spending time with, without all the weirdness of either of you wondering what's going on

 

[Dukeblue1016]

Back. Had to pull off and get gas....rolled in on fumes, that was a close one :dazzle:

Oh Joe that's great! And she could be just what you need right now....a female friend who you enjoy spending time with, without all the weirdness of either of you wondering what's going on

plus she's gorgeous...

:lookaroun

what...

i'm just saying...

it's helpful...



(i can do it myself... )

 

[nibblesandbits]

it was good... turns out friday night wasn't an actual date which was good; but I treated it like one and I did well. But i had an absolute blast with the girl; she was realllllly cool, very down to earth, and we had so much in common... probably will hangout again; but both kind of put it out there that we're not getting involved in any way shape or form... just hanging out and getting to know each other... so its nice, takes the edge off...

Saturday night was fun, watched the sox with a few people...

then sunday night they cancelled game 7 and just let the Rays go to the World Series cuz the Sox are so nasty it wouldn't have been fair to actually play the game... :lookaroun

Joe...I meant to message you back, but hadn't gotten to it yet, so thought I'd say it here...I'm super proud of you. You made it through a "date" without totally freaking out! Being yourself really worked. I'm just so proud of you!

 

[mpoppins76]

plus she's gorgeous...

:lookaroun

what...

i'm just saying...

it's helpful...



(i can do it myself... )

Nah, I think I'll go ahead and do it too

 

[nibblesandbits]

Back. Had to pull off and get gas....rolled in on fumes, that was a close one :dazzle:

Oh Joe that's great! And she could be just what you need right now....a female friend who you enjoy spending time with, without all the weirdness of either of you wondering what's going on

I agree Steph.

Someone who can help him become comfortable around girls.


And Hello Mrs. Adam!!! :kiss:

 

[mpoppins76]

Hey Nibblies :kiss:

 

[Dukeblue1016]

Joe...I meant to message you back, but hadn't gotten to it yet, so thought I'd say it here...I'm super proud of you. You made it through a "date" without totally freaking out! Being yourself really worked. I'm just so proud of you!

Thanks Nibbs!

Honestly I wasn't even expecting anything back so don't worry about it... I simply had you in the loop and I just wanted to share my story with someone so I messaged you (it was RIDICULOUSLY long... if you actually read the whole thing I'd be SHOCKED)

Nah, I think I'll go ahead and do it too

There's no place like home.

:lookaroun

 

[nibblesandbits]

Hey Nibblies :kiss:

So, how does it feel to be a married woman now?

 

[mpoppins76]

I agree Steph.

Someone who can help him become comfortable around girls.


And Hello Mrs. Adam!!! :kiss:

Exactly.



It feels weird, since I'm not changing my name until after the honeymoon (for passport purposes)....I feel like I'm in limbo and am not sure what my last name really is right now :lol:

 

[nibblesandbits]

Thanks Nibbs!

Honestly I wasn't even expecting anything back so don't worry about it... I simply had you in the loop and I just wanted to share my story with someone so I messaged you (it was RIDICULOUSLY long... if you actually read the whole thing I'd be SHOCKED)






There's no place like home.

:lookaroun

I did read the entire thing, jerkface!

And I really was gonna message you back, but then life got in the way and I forgot...

But, seriously, I am super proud of you...you got through the first one and that's the hardest one to get through. Now, moving on will be a tiny bit easier.

 

[nibblesandbits]

Exactly.



It feels weird, since I'm not changing my name until after the honeymoon (for passport purposes)....I feel like I'm in limbo and am not sure what my last name really is right now :lol:

It's not so bad not changing your last name...:lookaroun

I'm still married...but still myself too...and that's the way I like it.

 

[mpoppins76]

So, how does it feel to be a married woman now?

Honestly? So far, it feels kinda the same. :shrug::lol:

 

[nibblesandbits]

Oh Joe! Last night I saw the Episode of Family Guy you had me base this off of...:lookaroun

Seriously have that song stuck in my head now...:lol:

 

[nibblesandbits]

Honestly? So far, it feels kinda the same. :shrug::lol:

:lol:


Yeah...it kinda does.


A few things change...but it usually doesn't feel any different.

So were you nervous at all?

 

[mpoppins76]

It's not so bad not changing your last name...:lookaroun

I'm still married...but still myself too...and that's the way I like it.

:kiss:


Hey, how long does it usually take you guys after a wedding to post the pics on your website? Wondering if I'm wasting my time refreshing his website every 10 minutes waiting for them to appear :lookaroun

 

[mpoppins76]

Oh Joe! Last night I saw the Episode of Family Guy you had me base this off of...:lookaroun

Seriously have that song stuck in my head now...:lol:

:sohappy: You finally heard! :lol:

:lol:


Yeah...it kinda does.


A few things change...but it usually doesn't feel any different.

So were you nervous at all?

No, and I kept wondering if I was normal because I wasn't! :lol: The only time I felt a slight nervous jump in my stomach was rounding the corner with my Dad to walk down the aisle.