wsmith1978
Well-Known Member
Until now, most of us wouldn't have thought twice about letting kids splash in the water. These people were from the middle of the country. They don't have to worry about alligators like people in Florida do. Heck, I live on the banks of one of the biggest lakes in my southern state and I don't even think about it. We certainly have them here. It's easy to arm chair parent after the fact, but the reality is that the vast majority of on property guests have no earthly clue that the native fauna poses such a threat. This is a horrible freak accident. I can only imagine that the parents of this poor child are in the darkest parts of their minds right now going over and over the same exact arguments some of us are making against them.
You are so right. My gut reaction to this was to lash out at the parents for allowing this to happen, but the simple fact is that all it takes is a split second lapse in judgment for a horrible tragedy like this to occur. I feel so horrible for those parents. They not only have the entire world judging their parenting abilities right now, but they have to live with all of this (the what if's, the image of their child being pulled into the water, and the grief) for the rest of their lives. So incredibly sad.