Thank you!
Thanks
@Bob for the poke. It was my grandfather, but good memory!
First off, a bit of commentary to where this thread is going, not directed at the OP
...trying to "force something" isn't what this is about. It can be completely random, but if you are not aware of the conditions which can set you up for success, than you never even have a chance. To use an analogy, you never will win the lottery if you don't buy a lottery ticket. That said, you shouldn't plan on winning the lottery (and get emotionally attached to the idea of it) just because you did.
Moving on...
It's been a few years, but here's the skivvy.
1) There is no guarantee, always hope for the best, but don't plan on it. Basically, they try to fill this slot every day, and they do it a few different ways. Once it's full, then all Guests are told the "random" story if they ask. Though, it isn't as random as "family of the day" (which really is random, a CM is tasked to just "pick" one daily at Rope Drop). You cannot pre-schedule it.
2) You need to be there early, before rope drop if you can. Go straight to Guest Services. Talk to them. Be sure to have any proof of service with you (we weren't asked, but I was told they may) and they'll want to know rank, status, and branch info for the announcement.
3) They do pick more than one Vet of the Day sometimes
4) If a Vet of the Day hasn't been filled by a certain time before retreat, CMs from Guest Services will comb the crowds looking for a Vet (this is the "random crowd thing" mentioned earlier). They aren't hard to find...especially in Florida...look for the hats.
On a side note, if it's a returning soldier who wants to surprise their family with something aside from the Flag Retreat, or a very special Vet, you are best working through MWR (or whatever your branch calls it, that's the Army, or at least was) in advance as they have marketing connections with Disney directly. This is how some of those "special meetups" were coordinated that you find videos online about, like a few years back when a returning soldier surprised his family during a Voices of Liberty concert.