ENGAGEMENT HELP FOR DISNEY VET NEEDED!

JohnnyOBuffalo

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Well... this is my first post ever although I have been reading the WDWMagic boards for about 3 years almost everyday. Sorry this is long, but it should be an enjoyable read for you.

I wanted to share with you all my plan to propose to my girlfriend of 5 years this August (2014), and to ask for help with the planning due to possible conflicts.

A little background, we are from NY. Our parents were both married in the same month of the same year (1982). Her parents went on their honeymoon to DW and stayed at the Poly and have not been back to DW or even on a plane since. My parents went later that year and stayed at Poly on their first Disney trip together (Honeymoon was in Vegas), and brought us as kids many times (my sister is even a cast member now). Because of those reasons, and other memorable moments at Poly like surprising my parent's with a trip to Hawaii for their 30th anniversary, Poly is where I want this proposal to happen. Even more reason, my girlfriend and my absolute favorite restaurant, Ohana's, is at the Poly.

My girlfriend and I have now been to DW 5 times together. She won't think twice about going to "see my sister" in August. Little does she know, before we fly down mid-day, I will have flown her parents, little sister, little brother, and my parents all down to DW, taking the ME straight to Pop Century for a 5-night stay. When we arrive, my sister will just pick us up and drive us to her house (the usual for us). My plan was for us to relax for a bit, get ready for sushi at Kona for dinner, and then head to Poly. In the mean time, my parent's will get everyone ready after some pool time and usher them to Poly.

BEGINNING HERE IS WHERE I NEED YOUR ADVICE AND INPUT!

Although I haven't decided exactly how I want to do this, here are my thoughts so far:
1) Take her for a walk on the beach near the volcano pool, propose, and then have her family come out and surprise her. I would have one of my sister's friends sitting on a lounger video taping the whole thing.
2) Leave her with my sister in the main lobby, then send her on a mini scavenger hunt to find the signs "MALORIE", "WILL", and "YOU", then find me on luau beach with the "MARRY ME?" sign and our families standing behind me. With this option, she will know immediately what's going on, but my sister could video tape the whole process, and ultimately the family at the end is still the big surprise.

After either plan, we will all head to Ohana's for dinner to celebrate!

Do any of you have any better ideas?

My other MAIN CONCERN is about construction. I realize that Poly has started the construction on the DVC Villas and destroyed Sunset Point. This does not bother me. The things that really worry me are the stories about the GCH and the main volcano pool being torn up sometime between this year and next year. If the beach by the pool and the main lobby (the alternate locale if its raining) are torn up, it could ruin this for me. Also, I might even want to change the dinner reservation to a completely different place! Yikes! Therefore, I might need a completely alternate plan not involving the Poly (and not in the parks), but the Poly is special to me and us, and I want it there.

Your thoughts and comments are greatly appreciated! Thanks!!!
 

nolatron

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I always say keep it simple. Less pressure and stress of worrying about things working the way you want/hope them too. I had schemes of proposing to my DW at various places through the Magic Kingdom but the moment never made it itself 'right'. Too many people, too noisy, etc.. So I waited a day or so and ended up proposing on our Boardwalk balcony when it was just the two of us enjoying the quiet atmosphere and it was great. My point is don't worry about planning things down to the wire. Go and enjoy your trip and when the moment is right pop out the ring.

As for bringing down the whole the family... (and not that I wish you any bad luck or anything!)... but what happens if you don't get the answer you want right away? Might be kinda awkward. Besides, this is gonna be yall's moment. Enjoy it together. You can celebrate with family when you get back home.

Also, IMO.... don't involve/tell Disney. I've heard of too many stories of them spoiling the surprise.

My $0.02.

Good luck!
 

plaz10

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I think you should send your family into Ohana to wait for you guys.

Propose. Probably somewhere along the beach - a little more secluded.

Then you surprise her with an ADR at Ohana and when you guys get to the table...your Ohana is waiting for you!
 

JohnnyOBuffalo

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I always say keep it simple. Less pressure and stress of worrying about things working the way you want/hope them too. I had schemes of proposing to my DW at various places through the Magic Kingdom but the moment never made it itself 'right'. Too many people, too noisy, etc.. So I waited a day or so and ended up proposing on our Boardwalk balcony when it was just the two of us enjoying the quiet atmosphere and it was great. My point is don't worry about planning things down to the wire. Go and enjoy your trip and when the moment is right pop out the ring.

As for bringing down the whole the family... (and not that I wish you any bad luck or anything!)... but what happens if you don't get the answer you want right away? Might be kinda awkward. Besides, this is gonna be yall's moment. Enjoy it together. You can celebrate with family when you get back home.

Also, IMO.... don't involve/tell Disney. I've heard of too many stories of them spoiling the surprise.

My $0.02.

Good luck!

Nolatron,

Thank you for the input. I'm not concerned about the response. She's outright said several time "she wished time could go by quicker so that we can be done with graduate school and can get married already!" About the family, she has always said how much she'd like her family to come down for a trip, because we have gone with my family a few times, but the mere fact is, they don't travel at all most years besides a camping trip. And don't worry, besides the engagement being noted on the ADR, I don't plan on telling Disney ANYTHING!!!
 

Betsyboo

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Maybe @tikiman can comment. I think you may find this problematic with current construction and impending (but not scheduled) closure of the volcano pool.
 

JohnnyOBuffalo

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I think you should send your family into Ohana to wait for you guys.

Propose. Probably somewhere along the beach - a little more secluded.

Then you surprise her with an ADR at Ohana and when you guys get to the table...your Ohana is waiting for you!

Love this idea! Only qualm is that both my mother and her mother want to see the engagement, even if from a distance, since I am bringing them all the way down to Florida for it!
 

JohnnyOBuffalo

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Maybe @tikiman can comment. I think you may find this problematic with current construction and impending (but not scheduled) closure of the volcano pool.

Thanks for mentioning him! I have started to read his Facebook page and website for any info. Her family is already on board for the trip. This is why I might want to prepare a completely alternative plan, maybe at GF then dinner at Narcoose's.
 

OrlandoMatt

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If you'd like I'll be at Disney tomorrow photographing a wedding and I can stop by the poly and see what the current construction looks like and get a few pictures of it for you. I'd say the best spot would be the little circular location up on the hill behind the poly where they do wedding ceremonies to ask her to marry you then go on to meet your family. It's a simple pathway behind the resort pool leading up to it, overlooks the resort and the whole waterway. It would be perfect.

(As for them wanting to see the proposal, this works because they can be completely out of the way by the pool area and see everything off in the distance without you feeling like you're being watched, or worse yet have your future bride wondering why mom is standing over there half in tears)

And as someone who is about to celebrate his first year of marriage too, I can't agree more with "keeping it simple" you'll be nervous enough :) But that's really the perfect spot in my mind.
 

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