I think that a lot of this conversation might be best had over private message, as I tend to agree with The Mom that rarely does anyone have anything useful to add on these topics, and this discussion is an emotional one for many people.
However, I did want to add this bit, which may be helpful.
Part of my job involves working with families and churches that have been torn apart over the issue of homosexuality, particularly within the Christian faith. One trend I often notice is that what people think of when they say "gay" is typically connected to their experiences with gay people and their beliefs on the subject.
People who are generally disapproving of the topic and/or who have had limited exposure to gay people often think of it more as a sexual thing, whereas those who are gay themselves or have many close gay friends are more likely to think of it as an inborn element of someone's personality and an answer to the question, "If and when you fall in love, who would you fall in love with?"
I don't want to get into a debate about which of these is the more "correct" way to see it, since we could have endless debates about various theories of what causes people to be gay, whether they can change, and so on. (This is what I do for a living; I've heard it all.) But I bring this up only because I imagine that JK Rowling meant the revelation very differently from how some others have interpreted it. She likely has gay friends and views it as a biological condition. For her, this likely wasn't a sexual question at all but a romantic one, just as easily as if she had created a backstory that Dumbledore had once been in love with a woman and never loved again after that romance failed. If she had mentioned this in a Q&A when asked about his love life, it would never have made news. The reason
this did is that the love life backstory she imagined (with a male wizard) brings up a moral issue that many Americans disapprove of.
None of us know JK personally (as far as I'm aware!) but given my years of experience in this field, my own guess is that she likely created this backstory for him because it just fit in her own mind (perhaps he was even modeled after someone she knew or something like that) and not because she was trying to endorse any particular moral view. Of course, the fact that she has that perspective reveals what her own moral view on the subject is, but I'm not convinced that she was setting out to make a statement on it as a religious/moral issue.
Whether you agree or disagree with JK's view, does what I'm saying make sense, just in terms of trying to
understand?
And for those of you who are just dying to talk about whether you do or don't agree with that perspective or who want more information, feel free to send me a PM. I'm happy to discuss more details on these questions (causes, morality, the Bible, and all that) in private, but I'm not going to do it on this thread because it would just stir things up. :wave:
-p.b.
