Dressy restaurants

Chi84

Premium Member
I was taught that it's good manners to "dress for the occasion," whether it be a wedding, funeral, church service, fine dining restaurant, etc. The idea behind it is that it shows respect for the occasion and the other people sharing it with you. Rules of etiquette change with the times, though, and people now focus more on personal comfort when it come to dress.

Still, fine dining restaurants do more than just give you food to eat; they try to create a certain atmosphere or ambiance for their patrons, and they charge accordingly. They serve food using fine china, crystal stemware and actual silverware, even though the same food could be served in plastic baskets and paper cups. Like it or not, when you are there, you are visible to others and become part of that ambiance. That's not just my personal opinion - it's Disney's. As the owner of the restaurant, they publish a dress code stating acceptable attire and ask people to comply with it. The sign on the podium at California Grill states a dress code. It does not say "behave well," "there must be some sort of fabric covering your nether parts," or (my favorite all-time low suggestion) "just don't stink." And what is Disney actually asking for with its minimal dress code? There are literally hundreds of restaurants to choose from in Disney that don't have a dress code.

As people become more and more isolated these days, rules of behavior are changing and dress codes may become a thing of the past because they impact one's personal comfort. Also, Disney doesn't enforce its dress code except in the most extreme circumstances, provoking complaints from people who go out of their way to comply. Until Disney actually drops the dress codes, though, I think people should make some effort to comply with them even if they are not forced to do so by the restaurant.
 
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OneofThree

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I couldn’t disagree more. The dress and the atmosphere sets an standard and a way behave. Seeing the way people dress and act now at the YM compared to 20 years ago is night and day.

Joel Robuchon got it.

Definitely. Particularly considering the fact that at Disney, restaurant value is far more about the atmosphere and experience than it is about any sort of inherent culinary value.
 

PolynesianPrincess

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People in front of us checked into Cali Grill wearing shorts and sneakers and tee shirts / tank tops. Right in front of them was the sign about dress code. The cast members said nothing and escorted them to the elevator. The dress code at Disney is a joke. Why bother to have a dress code if you don't enforce it?! I honestly wish there were more adults only restaurants at WDW. I would LOVE it if they made Cali Grill adults only though I know they never will. I always follow the dress code because one, it's there and two, I like to look nice when dining at a nice restaurant. Inside the parks is a different story though.
 

Club Cooloholic

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People in front of us checked into Cali Grill wearing shorts and sneakers and tee shirts / tank tops. Right in front of them was the sign about dress code. The cast members said nothing and escorted them to the elevator. The dress code at Disney is a joke. Why bother to have a dress code if you don't enforce it?! I honestly wish there were more adults only restaurants at WDW. I would LOVE it if they made Cali Grill adults only though I know they never will. I always follow the dress code because one, it's there and two, I like to look nice when dining at a nice restaurant. Inside the parks is a different story though.
Were the two people in front of you adults? If so what would making it adults only do to have people dress better?🙄
 

John park hopper

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This is not rocket science if Disney has rules they post and don't enforce it is clear they are more interested in making a buck rather than turn people away for not following the dress code. It won't make any difference if it is an adult restaurant when Disney has this attitude
 

Tom P.

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I support a mandatory white tie dress code for all in-park quick service restaurants. That will really clear out the riff raff. No more waiting for my corn dog.
 

Tom P.

Well-Known Member
They are all dead... Who owns a white tie.
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Jon81uk

Well-Known Member
Lol, that always cracks me up. You can't find many adults only restaurants in major cities let alone a theme park resort.

But there are a number of places in cities that offer a similar menu and price point to California Grill or Narcosees that don't offer a kids menu and therefore are priced and aimed at adults and maybe their teenage children. The simple fact of not offering a children's menu gives off the vibe that children are less welcome.
 

Club Cooloholic

Well-Known Member
But there are a number of places in cities that offer a similar menu and price point to California Grill or Narcosees that don't offer a kids menu and therefore are priced and aimed at adults and maybe their teenage children. The simple fact of not offering a children's menu gives off the vibe that children are less welcome.
Absolutely right. But again, Disney really doesn't want to complicate things. A couple that is told at the door to Califorina Grill that their daughter isnt allowed to eat with then is going to give management and TripAdvisor a ton of complaints, a couple dealing with noisy kids can only say to themselves, well should have gone to Vegas instead.
Unlike these other cities that you maybe living in, you can get a sitter you know, wdw not so much.
I really miss the kids clubs at each hotel for this reason, we always used them, because honestly parents don't want to be eating a fine meal with screaming kids either.
 

danyoung56

Well-Known Member
I usually don't go for tech at the table. But a few years ago I saw a young couple dining with their 3 or 4 year old daughter. She had a dvd player and headphones, and was happily watching cartoons while the parents enjoyed a quiet dinner. Worked pretty well!
 

Chi84

Premium Member
I usually don't go for tech at the table. But a few years ago I saw a young couple dining with their 3 or 4 year old daughter. She had a dvd player and headphones, and was happily watching cartoons while the parents enjoyed a quiet dinner. Worked pretty well!
That’s because the parents had enough good sense and consideration of others to put headphones on the child. Unfortunately, we’ve experienced that scenario several times but without the headphones.
 

Rista1313

Well-Known Member
what is a dress code really if the people are behaved? it grieves me when people 'think' they have a better meal because the way they are dressed. makes absolutely no sense really.



i have a funny story about V&A, very embarrassing. but makes for a great laugh for me and the wife. Basically i didn't book the meal and went very casual LOL the team there tried their very best, gave me a full suit to wear literally, it was massive on me and im not the smallest guy height and a little chubby :).
i sit down and our names are embroider into the menu, i looks at GF at the time (now wife) and say what have we done. look at the price of the meal and nearly died, it wasn't that i couldn't afford it in general. i had literally only bought cash with me that night and nothing like the cost of 2 meals though. i had to tell the server i couldn't afford the meal :( they were great and sorted us a table in citricos next door (which happend to be where our wedding meal was as we enjoying it that much) Me taking off the suit was a picture :)
we leanred a lesson that day i can tell you. But funny nonetheless.

So who booked the meal? Why didn't either of you have any idea how much it was? Or was it a case of your GF told you, and you weren't listening LOL?
 

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