Wow. Lots of great advice so soon!
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Jboccuzzi, thanks for the reservation advice. I was already planning on making some nice reservations and getting the disney dining plan but I had no idea you could do it that far in advance. And I will definitely be signing up for the Honeymoon Registry! That's so cool that they have that.
olinecoach61, we're staying at the All Star Movies. I know it's not the most romantic resort but the value resorts are all we can afford. But we're huge movie fans (especially Disney movies). One of our all-time faves is Fantasia so we're requesting a room overlooking the Fantasia pool, which I think could be charming at night time when it's lit up with the water shooting out. Just trying our best to make it as romantic as possible. But I will definitely take the advice about the Poly!

Thanks.
Britt, I very much agree about the park at night-time. I haven't experienced Disney World for the romantic perspective yet since I was last there as a kid. But we spent our anniversary at Disneyland this year and it was very romantic, especially after dark.
Samoht, I know that when we called to make reservations at Disneyland for our anniversary and my birthday (which are in the same week) they asked if there were any special events we were celebrating. My birthday I got a free dessert at Blue Bayou (my favorite restaurant at Dland) and our anniversary we got free truffles at Carthay Circle Restaurant (definitely the best restaurant at CalAdventure).
ajrwdwgirl, the luau dinner show definitely looks like something my fiancee would enjoy. Might have to arrange that as a surprise!
Thank you everyone for the advice!