First, I'd like to address the "no one is forcing you" issue. It's true, no one HAS to go to WDW. But, for the people who want to go, and have been before, they have 2 options, neither of which are attractive: pay more to get the same experience as you've had before, or pay the same as before and get less of an experience than previously. Either way, less value for your $.
Second, if you do not want to pony up for WDW, but enjoy the Orlando/Kissimmee area, a much lower cost option would be to rent a vacation home, relax around the pool, and take day trips to the other attractions. We have done that once, and are planning it again for this March. The cost breakdown: for a 5 bed, 5 bath, 2800 sq ft villa with pool, for 10 nights, 7 people, $2300-$2700-the same price as 8 nights for 3 people at a moderate WDW resort room at 300 sq ft. Park tickets with park hopper for 7 days, 3 people: $2000; going to Kennedy Space Center, Medieval Times, go karts, Fun Center, etc for 7 people-less than $1000. Food for 3 people for 8 days at WDW restaurants: $1000-$1200 minimum; groceries and occasional dinner out for 7 people for 10 days, $400-$500. Total: WDW $5700-$6000, off-property vacation $4000-$4200 (WDW: $240-$250 per person per day, villa vacation: $55-$60 per person per day). If you have to have the Disney experience, then the villa vacation is not gonna work, but, if you're flexible, then it will save you lots of $$.