Okay, just for the sake of clearing up some of this, let's say the pictures are not of a tragic event of any kind. Let's say you are on a ride that malfunctions and you have the opportunity to see it with the lights on or the repair crews or how the evacuation procedures go, or a character with the head part of the costume off. No one got hurt, but Disney might still not want people to see it. Might you want pictures of that???? Bet you would! Bet you'd wanna come here and post about it! What about then????
As for 9-eye, I want to say that I agree 100% with what you have said. I too have a problem with people not knowing their rights and just giving in or giving up so as not to make a scene or draw attention to themselves, or even if they just didn't know any better. I believe in informed decision making, and I thank you for putting the info out there! I too, would not give my film to anyone, and not to be difficult, but because it is MY FILM!
As for the cast member issue, let me say this: Many, many times in your job, whateever that job may be, you can find yourself having to do something you don't want to do. When I ws a bank teller, I often had to ask for ID from people I knew full well, and did not need to identify. I knew they'd get annoyed if I asked for ID, but I had to, so I did. Was I angry or hurt when they got mad? Nope. I hated doing it myself. But I had to do it. When I was a CM I sometimes had to refuse a guest something I really didn't want to refuse. Could I change the policies? Nope. I had to do my job. But, I didn't want to do it, and I understood completely if the guest was displeased. Let's not assume the CM wants to take your film and be forceful about it, etc. As long as you are not threatening or rude, refuse all you want. If they are good CMs, they will not be rude or threatening to you, and they will understand. They just had to do their jobs, and you just had to refuse. Simple as that. Not hard feelings.
) I respect all of your thoughts whether in agreement or disagreement to mine. 
