Did you introduce your partner to Disney World

mergatroid

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And if so how did they react?

I started dating the now Mrs M 12 years ago and we went on holiday together shortly afterwards. Both living in the UK she had been to America once before, however she'd never been to Florida or experienced a Disney park. I had spent my life coming to Florida most years from an early age with my first Disney visit being in about 1975, as such I loved the place and obviously hoped that she was going to also. I think she realised by the way I talked about the place that it was something very special to me and I showed her videos which seemed to interest her, though there's a big difference between watching a video and actually experiencing it. I spent a lot of time planning the order of the parks to visit on her first trip and even planned in my mind the order of the attractions to visit for maximum impact, though the attraction order was more flexible due to waiting times etc.

The Magic Kingdom won hands down for the first park for her to visit. When I first went there was only the MK available so that was the park that made me initially fall in love with Disney. We arrived early before park opening and things were looking good when she giggled with excitement on the tram from the parking lot to the TTC. We caught the monorail and I sat there feeling really smug as I could see she was enjoying herself already, it felt really good sharing my love of the place with somebody else. She couldn't believe the opening ceremony and the walk up Main Street had her desperate to take multiple pictures of the castle and visit all the stores with me laughing and telling her she had plenty of time for that later on. We took a right at the hub and the TTA was the first attraction to ease her into things and give her a feel of Tomorrowland. I'd warned her it would pass through Space Mountain so she wouldn't panic (she doesn't do 'fast rides'). Needless to say she loved the place and that night was full of questions about the other parks.

Epcot was the second park to visit and I had high hopes she'd get a kick out of that. Mrs M is much smarter than myself (though we won't tell her that, ok ;)) and appreciates the more 'educational' things in life. She practically swooned in Ellens Adventure as we passed through the dinosaurs, something I'd deliberately not warned her about in advance. She loved Living with the Land and found it fascinating, this added a new dimension to the attraction for me as I'd never thought much of it but I discovered you can enjoy somebody elses pleasure by her reaction. Test Track is something she's never tried because "it looks too much like a roller coaster" and after living with her I've learned it's not worth the hassle of persauding her to do something she might not like as I would have to live with the consequences :eek:. World Showcase opened my eyes to how she loved shopping but I couldn't begrudge her that as she'd always waited patiently whilst I rode on attractions she wouldn't go on, sometimes having multiple rides.

Animal Kingdom was our third visit, not because I liked it more than the studios but quite the opposite in fact. With it being the weakest of the Disney parks imho, I thought any disappointment would be made up for the following day at the studios which I was certain she'd enjoy more. Don't get me wrong, I do like the Animal Kingdom I just don't enjoy it as much as the other three parks. Mrs M absolutely loved Kilimanjaro Safari (as do I) and also thought the gorilla enclosure was wonderful I was right in my guess that the AK would be her least favourite of the parks but that didn't mean we didn't enjoy it and every year since we've paid it at least one visit but view it as more of a relaxing day than the others.

Disney MGM Studios (as it will always be known to me) was our final destination out of the four major parks and has probably since become our favourite park over the years. She absolutely loved it especially the 'old fashioned' look to the place and wasted so much time photographing everything that I nearly confiscated her camera. In fact she loved our first attraction, The Great Movie Ride so much that she begged to go back on it straight away again and after I'd brokered a deal in how she could repay me back later on, we rode again. Indiano Jones was a show she loved from day one and every time we visit she always looks forward to it. She now enjoys trying to spot the cast member in the bright shirt before he 'volunteers' to be an extra and usually beats me to it to be honest. Fantasmic has also become a bit of a tradition for us since then and we usually see the show on our last night preceeded by a meal at the Sci Fi Dine In. She loves that restaurant as do I and we always share a chocolate sundae as we did the first time we went and still laugh at the absolutely terrible movie clips they show there.

Sorry to bore you all (for those who haven't given up reading by now) but thinking back to how I introduced Mrs M to Disney has brought back so many memories. We got engaged in Orlando at a chinese restaurant before seeing La Nouba and had our honeymoon there although I somehow escaped having to wear a Mickeys groom hat that trip :cool: . We've been back virtually every year since and I really don't like to imagine how much I'd have missed Disney had Mrs M not enjoyed it. I'm lucky not only to be with her but also to have her enjoy Disney also so we can visit each year and have such a great time together. So to get back to the original point, did you introduce your partner to Disney and if so did they love it like you?
 

JIMINYCR

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Congratulations on a successful joining of two people who share a love and enjoyment of Disney. :D
We were already married for a while before we took our first Disney trip, and fortunately we both fell in love with Disney. We have the desire to return as often as we can afford the trip and as often as life will allow us to visit. We both agree that this would be where we would spend the remaining years of our lives when we retire ( or sooner if fate steps in and we hit it big in the lottery or inherit from a long lost relative). They talk about how difficult a marriage is when two people are opposite in various ways. I'm so fortunate my wife and I share our love of Disney. I don't know how our marriage would survive if she didnt want to be there. ;)
 

dave&di

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Hi Mergatroid, my OH introduced me to WDW. He had been 3 times without me in the '90's (we hadnt met then) and about 10 years ago he asked me how I felt about going, I wasn't that interested, even when he came home with brochures! So that idea was forgotten about! We made our annual holiday Canterbury (English posters will/should have heard of it)!!!!!

Soooo.... 6 years ago he suggested WDW again and I don't know why but something clicked and I was keen to go! I think it may have been as the 1st time he suggested it he said about staying on I-Drive, the 2nd time he suggested staying at the GF! I was sold!

I haven't been to Canterbury since! He never imagined I would love it so much, he thought it would be a once in a lifetime trip, hence booking up the GF and the Portofino Bay at US. He now realises this was a mistake as now I have expensive tastes! Although we are sneaking in a trip this year but are trying POFQ as I've bled him dry!

At least once a month he'll mention it is all thanks to him that I have WDW in my life!
 
Your story was not boring at all. I actually got more interested the more I read. Giving someone that experience for the first time is probably one of the greatest. I grew up visiting the mouse. My wife had only been twice in her life when we met. She was no huge fan by a long shot. We have been together 11 years and have been to WDW 6 times and on a Disney Cruise. She is now hooked. Somewhere in there we had my son. She said she would not be one of those families that goes every year. Well my son is 3 and a half and has been 3 times. But now with twins on the way things will get interesting. Enjoyed this thread. Thank you.
 

mergatroid

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Hi Mergatroid, my OH introduced me to WDW. He had been 3 times without me in the '90's (we hadnt met then) and about 10 years ago he asked me how I felt about going, I wasn't that interested, even when he came home with brochures! So that idea was forgotten about! We made our annual holiday Canterbury (English posters will/should have heard of it)!!!!!

Soooo.... 6 years ago he suggested WDW again and I don't know why but something clicked and I was keen to go! I think it may have been as the 1st time he suggested it he said about staying on I-Drive, the 2nd time he suggested staying at the GF! I was sold!

I haven't been to Canterbury since! He never imagined I would love it so much, he thought it would be a once in a lifetime trip, hence booking up the GF and the Portofino Bay at US. He now realises this was a mistake as now I have expensive tastes! Although we are sneaking in a trip this year but are trying POFQ as I've bled him dry!

At least once a month he'll mention it is all thanks to him that I have WDW in my life!

Hi Di good to hear from you and send Dave my regards. We're off in October and can't wait to see new Fantasyland (were about a week to early last year unfortunately)
 

Spikerdink

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Love hearing these stories.... mine isn't as interesting.

Met my future intended (or so I thought) and talked about how great Disney was and how I loved every aspect of the trip. So, I figured we had been together long enough and booked a trip. Bought the airfare, booked a 1 BR at BCV and planned out all the ADRs. Shortly thereafter, the relationship went kaput and I ended up travelling alone....

Fast forward two years later and we meet again....and the relationship gets slowly rekindled. This time I don't push Disney but let things develop on their own. That year, my intended's company had their annual meeting in - take a guess - WDW. I helped pack the intended, took to the airport and then picked up on the return home.... Guess what - it was Disney love! Wanted to go back and spend more time...and I am thinking, wow, this can really be what cements this relationship...

So I book a 1 BR at BWV this time and go through the basic planning....but as it was time to book the plane tickets we had a fateful night at a B-52's concert. I paid for the concert, btw.... After the concert....I go to hit the bathroom before the ride home and return to find the intended hitting on someone else...I walk over and the other person is saying how they have been trying to set a date to meet for coffee and funny how they met at the concert. Yea, really funny. Needless to say, Disney trip never happened. And never heard from them again. Went to Disney with other friends.

Oh, well. I do keep my hope that someday I will have the special someone next to me who loves Disney as much as I do.... it will happen sometime!
 

dave&di

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Love hearing these stories.... mine isn't as interesting.

Met my future intended (or so I thought) and talked about how great Disney was and how I loved every aspect of the trip. So, I figured we had been together long enough and booked a trip. Bought the airfare, booked a 1 BR at BCV and planned out all the ADRs. Shortly thereafter, the relationship went kaput and I ended up travelling alone....

Fast forward two years later and we meet again....and the relationship gets slowly rekindled. This time I don't push Disney but let things develop on their own. That year, my intended's company had their annual meeting in - take a guess - WDW. I helped pack the intended, took to the airport and then picked up on the return home.... Guess what - it was Disney love! Wanted to go back and spend more time...and I am thinking, wow, this can really be what cements this relationship...

So I book a 1 BR at BWV this time and go through the basic planning....but as it was time to book the plane tickets we had a fateful night at a B-52's concert. I paid for the concert, btw.... After the concert....I go to hit the bathroom before the ride home and return to find the intended hitting on someone else...I walk over and the other person is saying how they have been trying to set a date to meet for coffee and funny how they met at the concert. Yea, really funny. Needless to say, Disney trip never happened. And never heard from them again. Went to Disney with other friends.

Oh, well. I do keep my hope that someday I will have the special someone next to me who loves Disney as much as I do.... it will happen sometime!
Your post started happy, went sad then back to happy and then sad again! That's a rollercoaster on its own! Your ex is the one who lost out. Your time will come! :)
 
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I loved hearing your story! Here is a (candid, unposed) picture of my husband enjoying some of his first tastes of Disney food. They say the way to a man's heart is through his stomach!
 

Goofnut1980

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Yup, I had been to the World a bunch... He only went because of me... Then after about the 2nd day said... Why the heck haven't I been here before... That trip I came home with DVC... lol
 

DisneyDebNJ

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my husband was NOT a fan of Disney (did it with his ex wife... lets just leave it there LOL) Then he went down with me, and I showed him the reason I was such a Disney dork! Truth be told, he does think its a bit expensive, but for the memories we make, the overall feeling we all get, the level of service we receive.... lets just put it this way.. he is becoming a Disney dork just like me!!!!!! :)
 

mergatroid

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Love hearing these stories.... mine isn't as interesting.

Met my future intended (or so I thought) and talked about how great Disney was and how I loved every aspect of the trip. So, I figured we had been together long enough and booked a trip. Bought the airfare, booked a 1 BR at BCV and planned out all the ADRs. Shortly thereafter, the relationship went kaput and I ended up travelling alone....

Fast forward two years later and we meet again....and the relationship gets slowly rekindled. This time I don't push Disney but let things develop on their own. That year, my intended's company had their annual meeting in - take a guess - WDW. I helped pack the intended, took to the airport and then picked up on the return home.... Guess what - it was Disney love! Wanted to go back and spend more time...and I am thinking, wow, this can really be what cements this relationship...

So I book a 1 BR at BWV this time and go through the basic planning....but as it was time to book the plane tickets we had a fateful night at a B-52's concert. I paid for the concert, btw.... After the concert....I go to hit the bathroom before the ride home and return to find the intended hitting on someone else...I walk over and the other person is saying how they have been trying to set a date to meet for coffee and funny how they met at the concert. Yea, really funny. Needless to say, Disney trip never happened. And never heard from them again. Went to Disney with other friends.

Oh, well. I do keep my hope that someday I will have the special someone next to me who loves Disney as much as I do.... it will happen sometime!

Always remain positive and I'm sure it will happen.
 

litaljohn

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Your post started happy, went sad then back to happy and then sad again! That's a rollercoaster on its own! Your ex is the one who lost out. Your time will come! :)

there's a hidden second sad tale here, that is that now, with neary 6 hours of work to go, I now have Rock lobster stuck in my head. I'm the first to admit it's not quite as sad, it going to be awful if I start talking in "B 52 voice"without realizing it the rest of the night.
 

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