I don't start topics too often, but I keep seeing posts about how Disney is no longer the magical place it used to be. Fingers are always pointing to the powers that be, and I do understand those arguments. There are maintenance issues and WDW itself seems to be in a bit of a holding pattern. I would argue, though, that some of the magic has been lost because guests have unreasonable expectations.
Take the paintbrushes for instance. I visit many Disney websites and have seen people talk about how they would race to Tom Sawyer's Island so that their child could find a paintbrush first. Then I've seen threads where people were mad because someone else had raced to Tom Sawyer's Island and found all the paintbrushes so their children didn't get to find one. I've seen rants about not getting towel animals in the room even though they left Mousekeeping a tip in a personalized envelope. I've seen rants about how someone's child didn't get enough attention from the characters even though their child was wearing a customized Disney outfit that they paid $300 for. I've seen threads from people asking if they should request a room upgrade and the various strategies for getting one. I could go on and on and on and on.
It seems that when Disney does something nice and magical, there are always guests who hear about it and try to take advantage of it. They try to "create" magic for themselves, and by doing so they end up destroying it for everyone else. Why have paintbrushes when you have people fighting over them and probably abusing cast members in the process? Why would you give anyone a room upgrade when you are going to have other guests demanding them?
I have been to Disney about 15 times. I went for the first time as an adult, and I have been hooked every since. My husband and children now love it as much as I do. We have never gotten a room upgrade, we have rarely had towel animals, we have never found a paintbrush, and we didn't win a single thing during the Year of a Million Dreams except an ice cream (and I was buying it for someone else!
). You know what? We still go to Disney because it's fun and it's a wonderful place that my family loves. Disney doesn't create the magic for my family - we create the magic by having fun and appreciating what we are experiencing. The few times when something special has happened like getting special seating at The Lion King Show and watching my daughter's participate in the Princess Parade at Downtown Disney are just icing on the cake. Maybe if people stopped trying so hard to create "magic" they would be more likely to enjoy the magic that's already there.
To quote POGO, "We have met the enemy, and he is us."
Take the paintbrushes for instance. I visit many Disney websites and have seen people talk about how they would race to Tom Sawyer's Island so that their child could find a paintbrush first. Then I've seen threads where people were mad because someone else had raced to Tom Sawyer's Island and found all the paintbrushes so their children didn't get to find one. I've seen rants about not getting towel animals in the room even though they left Mousekeeping a tip in a personalized envelope. I've seen rants about how someone's child didn't get enough attention from the characters even though their child was wearing a customized Disney outfit that they paid $300 for. I've seen threads from people asking if they should request a room upgrade and the various strategies for getting one. I could go on and on and on and on.
It seems that when Disney does something nice and magical, there are always guests who hear about it and try to take advantage of it. They try to "create" magic for themselves, and by doing so they end up destroying it for everyone else. Why have paintbrushes when you have people fighting over them and probably abusing cast members in the process? Why would you give anyone a room upgrade when you are going to have other guests demanding them?
I have been to Disney about 15 times. I went for the first time as an adult, and I have been hooked every since. My husband and children now love it as much as I do. We have never gotten a room upgrade, we have rarely had towel animals, we have never found a paintbrush, and we didn't win a single thing during the Year of a Million Dreams except an ice cream (and I was buying it for someone else!

To quote POGO, "We have met the enemy, and he is us."