Ok, here is my opinion, and if you keep reading, maybe you will understand why the opinion is based on fact:
I have 2 different family groups, one who shields their kids from EVERYTHING, thus the kids get their info from friends, not the parents...and another, who use tv shows, movies, or just about anything to stimulate conversation, and discuss right and wrong.
When we were small, we lived in a very rural area, with train tracks that ran behind the house. These were mostly coal trains that could run for over 20 minutes at times. My parents used to beat the train all the time, as there were no gates or flashing lights.
My sister, a week before her 18th birthday, went out to look at another car. A few minutes later, over the police scanner, My folks heard about an accident at the tracks. My dad and sister jumped in his truck, and went to see......My sisters small compact car had been hit by a train. There was NOTHING left of the car, or her. My Dad saw the whole accident scene. She was his favorite....naturally. The funeral home asked for clothing...my mom just kept saying "why" as there was nothing left to clothe.
So, does this mean I should fight to have the scene removed? No. It opens up conversations as to why its wrong....And as the result of my sisters accident, it has made the stae more aware of their responsibilities, and there are now gates and lights at the smallest crossings.....
My sister didnt learn to beat the trains from a movie, she learned it from my dad.....