My GF and I sat in the Queen Victoria room, we were initially terrified at the experience. But the two servers working the room, as well as the Maitre d quickly made us very comfortable. Never mind once we realized the harpist in the main dining room was playing Ozzy Osborne and Bon Jovi. Sure, not many folks realized that, but one lovely lady at a nearby table did and before long, all 4 tables were unafraid to make quiet conversation between each other, especially near the 9th course (10 courses are served in the Queen Victoria room) If offered, take the Miyazaki beef option, like the Dover Sole, it's an upcharge, but so worth it. Also, get the coffee at the end of the meal, not an upcharge, but optional and very fun to watch it pour itself. V&A's is one of the few extravagant things I've ever splurged on that I've not had the tiniest bit of buyer's remorse over.