It's not the you can't run up $500 - $1000 tabs for a couple, my point was that you don't have to. Disney gets plenty of knocks (mostly justified) for high prices. I didn't want to leave the impression that you *had* to spend that much at V&A. The base menus are outstanding, but add-ons certainly add a new level of stellar. They just aren't essential to the experience (unlike other Disney experiences where up-charges make things more palatable, pun intended).
That said, we're planning on a birthday dinner at Takumi-Tei in August, I'm beginning to think that might approach $500.
Dirk