Except that is where you are wrong. You are a member of at least 1 WDW related forum. And you are thus immediately an above average WDW guest. You joined approx 10 days ago, and were given number 111492. So that means there are roughly 112000 members of this site, and the forum that shall not be named has about 575000 members, and I think all the other sites are much much smaller. Figure a fair bit of overlap, so maybe 650000 unique between the two. If every single member went to WDW in a row, equates to a whopping 10 days of MK guests. 10 days. I'll let that sink in. So what, 1/30th of MK guests in a given year are involved enough with their WDW vacation to post and learn about things such as the exact minute FP+ opens up? Now admittedly there are people that just read certain non-forum sites, or just the Unofficial Guide, so have an idea how it works. But how many of the members of this forum don't go in a given year? Or even just how many people ask how to make FP+ reservations, or who come on in a panic 15 days out not realizing they could make them in advance (look for the threads, there are plenty). You
@MOM2FOUR , and the rest of us forum members are a drop in the bucket in the overall number of Disney guests.
Now in your specific case, you are definitely at a disadvantage. The popular rides where one would actually need to book at midnight, on site guests already had a 30 day head start. So who knows, maybe 95% of the FP+ for those rides were gone already. Heck, they could be 100% booked and you are out of luck.