Just yesterday I was sat in a fast food restaurant (big yellow M's......you may have heard of it! ) and a guy in his early 40's I guess walked in with tatoos covering his entire face, head, and neck. His hair was shaved off so his whole head was totally tatooed, no skin visible above the collar of his shirt.
Whilst I didn't immediately dismiss him as a nutter, I did think to myself I wonder if he regrets getting all that done, or faces daily abuse/shunning from people like me who question why anyone would want to do that.
As he stood and waited to order his two young boys ran over and joined him. They were all in the queue laughing and joking. He was lifting them up, tickling them, hugging them and generally having a fun time. They in turn were giggling and playing and really enjoying being with their Dad. It was clear they loved him dearly, and couldn't careless how he looked. Maybe they had no recollection of how Dad looked pre tattoo, or maybe they just didn't care. To them he was Dad, and all three were having a blast whilst they waited to order. It made me both smile at how nice it was to see a family having so much fun together, and then question why I had been so judgemental about his appearance in the fist place.
I'm not a fan of tattoos on people in the service industry, and could trot out a load of reasons about customer expectation etc, but maybe after yesterday I'm beginning to see that the issue is mine, that I need to change, to see things through the eyes of those innocent boys, rather then the eyes of a judgmental 40 year old!