Hi all! So we made it to BGW this weekend. All I can say is LOVED IT!
First of all, yes, such a beautiful park as everyone mentioned. Gorgeous trees. Shade! Flowers. It's beautiful the way they built it into the landscape, not on it. The coasters were awesome, and it's also amazing how even though the coasters are simplistic (not all themed up like Disney's), they also blend into the landscape and the rest of the attractions.
We spent two days there, from open to close, and we still didn't get to do everything we wanted. We could have easily spent a third day there. I can see how combined with Water Country and Colonial Williamsburg, we could definitely spend a week there easily.
We stayed at Kingsmill. Absolutely gorgeous. The room was top-notch. The grounds there are beautiful. I knew it overlooked the James River, but I didn't realize that the James River is really more of a bay there it's so huge! The food was great at the resort as well. We saw their new River Pool, which has a lazy river and a nice-sized water slide. That looked gorgeous as well. I think I could spend a week just hanging out at Kingsmill.
What else...We did the Dine with Elmo character meal. The food was very basic and geared towards kids, and my kids did like it. It takes place in a cute castle and the characters do a little show through the meal. But the best part was the amount of character interaction that you get. My DD must have hugged all of the characters at least two or three times, and then they all came around to our tables and interacted. Seriously the best character meal I have ever been to. It definitely made me feel very ripped off by the prices for some character meals at WDW relative to the amount of interaction you get.
The other shows were great too. We saw the Irish show, Oktoberfest, a little bit of the Italy show and the pets show. All really good.
The food was really good too, the portions were enormous.
I thought the theming was beautiful. It wasn't as heavily themed as parts of WDW, but it was still beautiful. I loved the animal part of the park over by Ireland, we spent a lot of time there as well. Really, it's a park for everyone...whether you just want to walk around and chill, you have little kids, you love coasters, shows, tons of stuff for everyone.
All in all, really a top-notch park, and totally worth the drive from NJ. I don't want to compare it to WDW directly, but as a family, we had as much fun there in two days, if not more, than we do at WDW. We will definitely be going back.
Thanks for all of the previous posts, they were very helpful!