certainly self-raised... I went four times during my childhood but we never stayed on site, parents always wanted to rent a house so we could stay longer. My parents weren't fans, just brought us kids because that's what parents "have to do".
it wasn't until 2009 when my then gf and I (soon to be wife, disneymoon July 9-20!) decided Disney would be a "fun" vacation. She always stayed onsite, I always stayed off. We decided, since I'm usually the money man, to stay off... between the driving, the 14 bucks a day to park, and the lack of "magic" offsite I decided I'd give the resorts a go the next time around. From the moment I left that first trip I joined the boards and started reading up on Walt, the parks, music... collecting nick nacks. It was all downhill from there. March of 2011 I asked my best friend for her hand in marriage, on a beach swing outside the BC. I'll never forget that trip and I am 1000000000000% relieved that she not only accepts but partakes in my Disney passion.
I was always in the "cool" crowd in HS because I played three varsity sports. SO I think I had years of suppressing my true self to fit in. Now, I go the grocery store in my disney shirts and I could care less. It might be easier when you're a dad in his 40's but as a 27 year old I get a lot of looks and people judge me a lot. The idea of disney and honeymooning boggles peoples minds, I get a lot of "oh... why not sandles?" ... oh yeah, because going somewhere just to get drunk for a week is somehow more socially acceptable than a family friendly destination?!?!
I don't get it...