We are DVC members and of all the DVC resorts, OKW is our least favorite. Don't get me wrong, I am not a OKW basher, but compared to other deluxe resorts, OKW is more like a mod resort, with really great rooms. The resort is very spread out, the studio rooms don't have good views of almost anything (they are corner rooms next to a one bedroom.) The studios are better then a normal hotel room because they have a microwave, refridger, toaster, coffe maker ect... If that means a lot to you, stay there. (it does to us, we save alot on food staying at DVC rooms.) The one bedrooms are very big with really great acomodations, whirlpool tubs, DVD players, Washer and Dryers. They are putting in a water slide at OKW, but not until this fall (not sure when it should be done.) OKW can make for some long walks from the bus in the rain or hot weather. If you have a car, one plus is you can park right near your room. The resort is very lovely, laid back and fun, but not like AKL at all.
We stayed one night at AKL (and 9 nights at OKW last year.) The one night was for our aniversary while BIL and SIL stayed in our OKW room with DD. We were really impressed with AKL, we loved the restarants, the feeling of the lodge and the rooms. One plus is you don't share busses with any other resort and there is only one stop. That cuts down on how long you travel on the bus. We had really good luck with the busses at AKL. We were really fed up with the busses at OKW, but some people don't seem to mind them. The resort is so big that if you get on the 1st stop, it is 10 to 15 min until you actually leave the resort and are on your way.
We were disapointed with OKW when we compared it to other Deluxe resorts. If you were asking BCV or AKL, I would say BCV. If you really love AKL and you want your friends to be as impressed as you are, you might want to do AKL so you aren't dispapointed.