My question is - Why would anyone want to go to Disney over Xmas Holiday? If you know its going to be swamped, do you really want to wait in long lines and have to push through crowds of people & kids? Stay home, enjoy your Xmas tree & presents. We are avid fans of Disney & have resident annual passes. We only go when the kids are in school. But, if you have kids that are in school, take them out one day and go during the week - never on a holiday! My advice to Disney - they should build a brand new park instead of adding to the four they have. They need to disperse the crowds that just keep getting worse. They could have built a completely new park that was just for Pandora and one for Star Wars. This would take some of the stress off the old parks. They could have a separate fee for the 2 new parks. With less crowds they would get more people and more gate fees.
For us, it's the only time to go. My son is in college and my daughter in middle school. This is the only time the vacations line up without 90 degree heat (which would be torture and not a vacation for us). We don't spend hour after hour in the parks at this time of year. We do fastpasses as well as possible during the day, and usually go back at night. Being at the Boardwalk makes it easy for us to come and go. Afternoons are usually spent dining, napping and/or swimming. Also, if the crowds are too nuts somewhere, we just leave. We've ridden pretty much everything, so it isn't a huge sacrifice to go back to the Boardwalk if the crowds are nuts. Plus, if one or two of us want to stay, we do. We're not afraid to break up the party.