We didn't mind at all changing resorts. When are you going? We are going this year 10/21-10/30 and actually just cancelled a one bedroom at AKL Kidani today for the week. Our plans have changed and we are now staying at OKW and BLT. Maybe my cancellation will help with your wait list.
Changing resorts is fun- you get the chance to experience two resorts in one trip. The only thing is you have to pack up and move your things- but Disney will move them for you once you have everything packed. Good luck- hope you do get your wait list