MJ's Pixie Dust Gang

[nibblesandbits]

What's the matter Nibblies?
Is it the house issue?

no...not that. What's his face and I got preapproved for a loan...so that's all fine.

It's just the whole photographer quitting thing. See...my mom and dad have two studios...and they had two photographers, one for each. Well, the guy who worked at the one quit on them a few months back. No big deal. My dad has been filling in and has been doing a great job. Now, the photographer from here is quitting and my dad can't be in two places at once. So unless we find a trained photographer (and trained is the key word.) we will have to close this studio and focus all of our attention on the other one. (We can't sell the other one, we've tried and it won't sell, and right now, it's making us more money because we have two school contracts for that one...we only have one school contract for this one.)

So that means that they'd have to sell this studio...the one that started it all. And it's not just that that makes me uncertain...but this studio was my home...literally. I have lived here for 10 years of my life...and if we sell the building, I will lose my "childhood" home...again. My parents will move into a house (a real house would be nice for them...I know that they'd like it.) But this also means that I have a choice too. 1. Do I want to live in the same town as I've grown up...and that answer is a yes. and 2. (And this is the big choice) This gives me the opportunity to look for a new job. Do I want to do it or stay where I am.

I think I'm most upset about the whole moving thing though. I mean, I know I don't live here anymore, but, it was my house and all. And I don't deal well with change.

So I'm just really uncertain about where my life is going right now. I know it's going in the right direction...I just don't know what path to take. (And how I'm going to deal with all the change around here now.)

 

[jesserin]

*yawn*

Just saw that McSteamy is comin back to woo Meredith... *grrrrr*

 

[nibblesandbits]

Nibblies!!!!!
Where are you?

I'm here...I was typing my novel! :lol:

 

[Nemo14]

I'm thinking I'm not going to make it through "Dancing with the Stars" either.
I already set my DVR.
Realllllly sleepy tonight.

*Blasts the radio*

Hello everyone!

 

[nibblesandbits]

*Blasts the radio*

Hello everyone!

I'm awake!

 

[jesserin]

*Blasts the radio*

Hello everyone!

*dances sleepily*

I can never resist a good song.

 

[Uponastar]

no...not that. What's his face and I got preapproved for a loan...so that's all fine.

It's just the whole photographer quitting thing. See...my mom and dad have two studios...and they had two photographers, one for each. Well, the guy who worked at the one quit on them a few months back. No big deal. My dad has been filling in and has been doing a great job. Now, the photographer from here is quitting and my dad can't be in two places at once. So unless we find a trained photographer (and trained is the key word.) we will have to close this studio and focus all of our attention on the other one. (We can't sell the other one, we've tried and it won't sell, and right now, it's making us more money because we have two school contracts for that one...we only have one school contract for this one.)



So that means that they'd have to sell this studio...the one that started it all. And it's not just that that makes me uncertain...but this studio was my home...literally. I have lived here for 10 years of my life...and if we sell the building, I will lose my "childhood" home...again. My parents will move into a house (a real house would be nice for them...I know that they'd like it.) But this also means that I have a choice too. 1. Do I want to live in the same town as I've grown up...and that answer is a yes. and 2. (And this is the big choice) This gives me the opportunity to look for a new job. Do I want to do it or stay where I am.

I think I'm most upset about the whole moving thing though. I mean, I know I don't live here anymore, but, it was my house and all. And I don't deal well with change.

So I'm just really uncertain about where my life is going right now. I know it's going in the right direction...I just don't know what path to take. (And how I'm going to deal with all the change around here now.)

As a person who resists change, I can really understand how you feel. Interesting how this all is happening just as you have started a new life.
I think that, even though we leave our childhood homes, part of us always imagines that it will always be there, exactly the same, forever. It is great to have roots that have wonderful memories. And getting married and moving on allows you, usually in a gradual manner, to move on and make memories of your own. The problem here is that the change isn't happening gradually! You just left and major changes may be taking place. So that makes it harder. But whatever happens, you'll still have the memories and your family to share them with.
You'll get through this, whatever direction it goes.
Try not to worry too much about it.

 

[Uponastar]

*Blasts the radio*

Hello everyone!

*stuffs cotton in her ears*

WHAT????

 

[Nemo14]

((hugs)) to all tonight - there's definitely something in the air...:lookaroun

 

[Disnut]

I'm awake!

I wish it would wake me up. Turn it up louder.:lookaroun I just took some allergy medicine. I hope it works soon.

 

[Uponastar]

((hugs)) to all tonight - there's definitely something in the air...:lookaroun

((HUGS)) right back attcha, Fishy!
Don't know what it is, but I sure wish it would move on already!
We need some peace around here!

 

[Nemo14]

((HUGS)) right back attcha, Fishy!
Don't know what it is, but I sure wish it would move on already!
We need some peace around here!

I blame it all on the Yankees......................

 

[Uponastar]

I blame it all on the Yankees......................

I'll go along with that!
Gotta blame somebody!

 

[Nemo14]

I'll go along with that!
Gotta blame somebody!

I think the weekend caught up with me today - I've been yawning all day!

 

[Uponastar]

I think the weekend caught up with me today - I've been yawning all day!

Join the crowd. :snore:
We're a bunch of duds around here tonight!:lol:

 

[maggiegrace1]

Hey Guys..10 minutes to I see My Luke....

Soo I have gallbladder surgery on Monday the 16th..WOO HOO

I wont be able to pick up my Maggie for 1 week or longer..

Sooo...Hope everybodys days gets better....

 

[Disnut]

Hi Dana

 

[Nemo14]

Hey Guys..10 minutes to I see My Luke....

Soo I have gallbladder surgery on Monday the 16th..WOO HOO

I wont be able to pick up my Maggie for 1 week or longer..

Sooo...Hope everybodys days gets better....

Best to get that over with Dana - you'll feel so much better after. Who will help you with Maggie?

 

[Uponastar]

Hey Guys..10 minutes to I see My Luke....

Soo I have gallbladder surgery on Monday the 16th..WOO HOO

I wont be able to pick up my Maggie for 1 week or longer..

Sooo...Hope everybodys days gets better....

Enjoy Luke!
I'm too sleepy to watch!

Sorry about the surgery.
But at least you'll be feeling better once it's over and done!

And no,
I don't think anyone is really doing too well around here.
It's an epidemic of crap!

 

[nibblesandbits]

As a person who resists change, I can really understand how you feel. Interesting how this all is happening just as you have started a new life.
I think that, even though we leave our childhood homes, part of us always imagines that it will always be there, exactly the same, forever. It is great to have roots that have wonderful memories. And getting married and moving on allows you, usually in a gradual manner, to move on and make memories of your own. The problem here is that the change isn't happening gradually! You just left and major changes may be taking place. So that makes it harder. But whatever happens, you'll still have the memories and your family to share them with.
You'll get through this, whatever direction it goes.
Try not to worry too much about it.

Oh Dot...you always know the right things to say. (And I swear...I'm not tearing up...:lookaroun)