We are a family of night owls. To the extreme. The odds of our family ever doing rope drop are actually less than zero. And we haven't done rope drop, not even once. In fact, we usually don't show up at the parks until early afternoon and then are there until they kick us out at night.
Sometimes we've used FastPass or bought Lightning Lane or whatever. Other times we haven't. I think on our last trip last year we had Lightning Lane for two days and that was it. And yet somehow we've always managed to do most or all of the things that were important to us and enjoy our days in the parks.
I'm not saying anyone else's experiences or way of doing the parks is wrong. But that's been our experience.