If you change your dates before you book your fastpasses, it will affect when that 60 day window opens up. I'd make the FP+ selections first, then change your trip dates if you end up needing to do so. Keep in mind that if you change an existing reservation (if it's a package) after the 45 day window and the changed reservation is cheaper than the original cost, Disney will charge a fee. I had to do that once and Disney charged me $50 bucks. Should have taken it out of the hide of the jerk who dumped my daughter 30 days before our trip....