Paradise Pier is OK but a bit of a stroll away and feels like a Holiday Inn re-themed to Disney. I never felt like a part of the magic there. The Disneyland Hotel would be my choice for families as it has a great new pool area and is very classic Disney in a lot of ways and it's next door to Downtown Disney. Far and away the best choice of them all for newlyweds (assuming you want to stay at a DLR hotel) is The Grand Californian. It's in California Adventure, has very nice places to dine and a nice lounge. It also enters into either the park- Calif. Adventure and Downtown Disney. The decor is much more "romantic" than the other two hotels which are both a little cold in comparison. It's the closest thing to a WDW resort, especially Wilderness Lodge. Check-in was a little slow and you'll really need reservations at the dining establishments which are very, very nice. I've been to all three and never stayed off-site so I can't speak to others in the area. Congrats!